We just finished watching/reading The Last Lecture in my English class. During the lecture, a woman is quoted saying something along the lines of, "I have figured out how to deal with men. Ignore everything they say, and pay attention to only what they do." How sound is this as far as relationship advice from a man's perspective? Is the ideology correct that those of us who say what we mean should focus on shutting up a bit more and just doing? What is Seddit's opinion?