How to accelerate sexting

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-03-08T22:42:05+00:00

Imagine a guy sexting “hey… wanna fuck?” or “can’t wait to lick what you hide down there.”

Yeah there are guys who think it works because another guy says so. Could it work? Sure. It could work if the girl on the other end is also super horny and just wanting to be pounded hard right here right now. But how often does that really happen? Maybe less than 1% of all sexting interactions.

The problem with the kinda sext that I wrote above is not the sentence itself. But there is a process to get there. You can’t just skip the whole process to get right into the most vulgar phase.

The process involves steps, just like when you have sex with someone, both of you don’t just right away take off your clothes and start hopping like rabbit like in a movie. Again, it could happen but the chance is very slim.

What usually happens in general, just like in physical interactions, people do it one step at a time; from a light touch, to holding hand, to hugging her waist, cheek-kissing, neck-kissing, french-kissing, and so on and so forth.

Same thing with sexting. Start small. Throw a small bait, if you wanna call it that, something like “did you know you lick and bite your lips occasionally whenever you talk to me?” or “when we had the ice cream earlier, I remember you licking the tip slowly and staring at me like you’re doing it on purpose” or “tell me why you always open your mouth whenever you put on your mascara? It makes me think on something.” It’s not too sexual, but it’s absolutely physical.

These kinda openings give her an opportunity to take the bait you throw at her. This is just an early stage of sexting, the “slightly touching her like in real life” part before you escalate to hand holding, hugging, and kissing phases. If she responds positively, then take another step forward. If she doesn’t respond at all or respond negatively, then stop or take a step backward, do not double down.

Long8D · 2026-03-09T00:44:34+00:00

Who is this person? Do you know her in real life or is it someone random online?

Dandys3107 · 2026-03-09T13:43:45+00:00

The point is to escalate gradually and in proper moment, when energy is high, you are both in good mood, connected with something pleasurable. You can mention casually something that is connected with sexual sphere. Or make a mild assumption about you getting closer to each other. Or compliment something about her, like you do really like it. Ignite girl's imagination by presenting her some potential scenarios between the two of you, it should trigger necessary emotion for her to warm up and start imagining some potential scenarios with you as well. Generally, you should look for an opporunity to implement such techniques for it to look naturally. And obviously watch girl's reactions, if she is not so pleased with your move, you adjust accordingly by getting more casual. Push and pull technique also works wonders if you want to get something going with a girl, I suggest to look through the examples of it thoroughly. And lastly, even if you manage to create sexual mood, remember that it is not your goal after all, don't get too invested in it and work smoothly towards meeting with each other in real life circumstances, if you keep on talking, you will becoming talking buddy.

Miss_Galoldriel · 2026-03-08T19:36:08+00:00

Do you know if she's into sexting? If not, it can get akward really fast.

Browser72 · 2026-03-08T20:56:19+00:00

I'm not completely sure sexting leads to the real prize. It's worked in the past with me for some women that really wanted it. But mysterious innuendo is far more effective at keeping a woman's attention and curiosity up than getting explicit.

Whole_Caramel_7279 · 2026-03-13T06:57:37+00:00

Why did I read this in an Indian accent?

The answer is don’t. Too much to risk barely any upside.

Title	How to accelerate sexting
Author	buzz-inga
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	March 8, 2026 7:29 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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