Ok, so this may be corny, but I was watching one of my favorite web series, Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee with Jerry Seinfeld. On this week's interview he talks to Louis CK. As I'm watching it, however, I start to realize that this video teaches a lot about how you should act on a date. It's obviously not a date (they are both heterosexual married guys) but if you can adopt this demeanor you will do well.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WH8mwZDlTNM

For example, both of these guys are famous comedians, so they obviously are "alpha" and confident, but they also respect each other immensely.

The show is supposed to be about Jerry Seinfeld interviewing Louis CK, but it doesn't feel like an interview at all. Jerry adds a lot of his own stories and stuff, and their mutual respect ends up causing Louie to ask Jerry a bunch of questions.

Everything turns into a joke, and even when something shitty happens, they make it positive by joking about it.

Notice how they subtly turn the conversation sexual at certain places.

Notice how they both interject hilarious stories at certain points.

Notice how they both listen to each other intently and make interesting comments about the other person's interesting comments.

They compliment each other, but its obviously not supplicating and its often funny.

Notice the cocky funny humor.

Most importantly, they are both sharing something they are passionate about!