I 34M find myself in weird times. Since my mid 20s I have been fairly adept at getting dates and flings and some girlfriends but I'm having trouble attracting my type.

The women I prefer...how to I put this properly...they fat. The curvy type with big features but not broadbacks. It wasn't always like that, I guess what I consider sexy changed as I got older.

I get plenty attention from females, yet I want to know why it is so much easier to talk to the beautiful slender women then the full figured chubbies. Before I knew what I was doing, I always thought the hot ones would be the most difficult to talk to. Now that I can naturally connect with beautiful women at will, I feel like a rookie around the big girls now that I find them attractive.

Seriously, I do the opposite of most dudes, I literally talk to the hot girl to get to know the fat friend🤣

Is this normal? Do I need to fire my shrink? Do I need to talk to bigger set women differently?