So I see many people talk about how daygame is elite ball knowledge, because less men do it, and the girl isn’t drunk, so more likely to remember you, and also more attracted to you since you had the balls to say wassup to her during the day
After an 8 year relationship, I’ve only recently started approaching women again. Doing it in the day feels massively more anxiety inducing so I do it at night. I’m pretty consistent and go out of my way to approach the most beautiful women at each venue
There’s a part of me that feels like I’m putting the reps in, and giving myself exposure therapy to rejection, while also teaching my ego that approaching women isn’t that big of deal
But for some reason, when I see a girl at like the grocery store or gym, my body just gets overwhelmed with anxiety when I think about saying wassup to her
Tbf, this level of anxiety also used to happen even in night game and usually, the first few approaches have some inner doubt. But once I get through a few, I feel confident to go up to pretty much any woman at any club/bar, even if they’re extremely beautiful
For those of you who daygame, Is this a matter of putting in more reps during night game, and continuing exposure therapy that way, which will eventually get me to a place where I feel more comfortable approaching girls during the day?
Or whats the sauce? The anxiety I feel when psyching myself up to approach a girl during the day is like 1 million times more paralyzing to my body than even the first approach of the night during night game
Any resources?
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