How to dirty talk?

teachmehowtodoggy · 2015-06-29T22:52:07+00:00

I had a fling last summer with a girl and we had great sex. At one point she was on top and leaned into my ear and quietly said, "Drill me." Simple, to the point, I still get hard thinking back to it.

jtijerina · 2015-06-29T19:29:35+00:00

Change your views about sex alongside your bf, there is no shame in sex as it is part of who you are, part of the complete human experience. Don't be ashamed of it, live it, enjoy it! Dirty talking seems easier to me if I also display a 'sexy' expression and smile. Don't know how to give off a dirty smile? Imagine you are about to fuck the shit out of your partner.

redditisawesomeinla · 2015-06-30T15:18:03+00:00

Talk dirty to him over auto-tune - at least that would sound pretty cool.

Setsa · 2015-06-29T19:18:45+00:00

Start off with relatively chaste statements. Things like "I like it when you do that" or "you are sooo bad" can do a lot to augment a passionate moment. Obviously, make sure things are genuine. You can flip through erotic writing and find snippets and lines that turn you on or that might do the trick for your partner then experiment with them to your liking too!

g4casting · 2015-06-29T19:52:05+00:00

I recently had sex with a girl and the way she talked made it fucking amazing more than the sex itself. I was inexperienced so she just asked me what I like, and told me what she wants to do with me, and what she wants me to do to her. Very openly. It was really casual and not awkward at all, and it was extremely hot. She'd say stuff like "I love it when you touch yourself, I want you to cum on my face, you're so hot blabla".

Basically just say what goes through your mind, what you wanna do.

chiliehead · 2015-06-29T20:32:53+00:00

/r/sex. There´s plenty of good advice advice already, also very good instructions.

There´s no shame in being shy or not liking dirty talk. But confidence means also to challenge your comfort zone and step out of it. Maybe you love doing it and are missing out big.

Only do what you´re comfortable with, especially regarding sex. More important than talking dirty is talking about what you and your partner like, want to try and how to improve the experience for everyone. Before, while and after having sex.

Last but not least, sex is fucking awkward in general and if he´s with you in bed, you can´t really do much wrong. Make it step by step, don´t get discouraged.

DotishGuy · 2015-06-29T21:16:40+00:00

"what if I was there? ;)"

"yeah? and then what? ;) "

"without me? ;) "

"send nudes ;) "

Title	How to dirty talk?
Author	flexible_wink
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	June 29, 2015 6:17 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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