I've come a long way in the past few years. I went from knowing nothing and being a virgin to being experienced and having girls tell me I've been one of their best kisses, fucks, etc. That being said, I have an issue and I'd really like some feedback. I can get myself a random lay quite easily, but I'm not after that. I'm after a meaningful connection with someone. I have this problem, mainly from tinder, but also number closes. this is what happens. I'll get her number, she'll be really into me, texting me non stop and begging to hang out. We'll meet up and I'll perceive the interaction as going well, but I've had a lot of girls back off hardcore or just stop replying to me after the interaction. I'm trying to learn from my mistakes and change things, the only problem is I can't tell what my mistake was. I'll go back over the interaction in my head but can't pinpoint anywhere that I messed up. This causes the same thing to keep happening. How do you find out what your mistakes are in the interaction? and how do you learn from failures?