How to game while with female friends?

SMNs · 2016-10-16T10:35:54+00:00

What's wrong if they see you flirting with another girl?

InfamousCthulu · 2016-10-16T15:12:30+00:00

That doesn't sound like the fact that there's female friends with you, it sounds that you're uncomfortable flirting with a girl in front of other people.

Woujo · 2016-10-16T18:40:16+00:00

STOP THINKING OF IT AS "GAMING"

Just think about it as talking with people.

charmand3r- · 2016-10-16T15:23:19+00:00

I have a lot of female friends, and I just casually hit on other girls while them being there. It's even easier to hit on and close chicks if you go out with a lot of female friends, I have done it a lot and sometimes it's so easy you don't wanna go out with guys anymore.... :) Most times the chicks you hook up with assume that you have had sex with some of them as well which is a plus.

crawleydown · 2016-10-16T17:41:15+00:00

I personally hate it, because for some reason, I find it less embarrassing to get constantly rejected in front of my guy friends, than I do in front of girls that I know (usually my guy mates girlfriends).

Maybe it's because I don't think girls understand how hard it is, whersas my guy friends probably know full well, having likely been rejected hundreds of times!!

When I was younger, I used to sometimes go drinking with my brothers wife, and she'd be like ''them girls are pretty over there. If I was a guy, i'd go up to them and literally take them all back for a threesome!'' I was like ''Yeah, If you were a guy that looked like Brad Pitt! - it's not as easy to 'pull' as a guy as it is for you!''

DaygameCoach · 2016-10-16T20:59:01+00:00

Awesome... flirt with (and kino) the new girls,and if your female friends really are your friends they will either cheer you on or come over and help you out (make you look good) with the new girls. A female friend who helps you with other women is called a "pivot. As far as worrying about people watching or what they think...deal with that self-limiting belief...your harshest critic is yourself.

BeardsAreWeird · 2016-10-16T20:14:03+00:00

Personally, I find it easier to have female friends around because other girls don't see you as the creepy guy that's only looking to get some. Also, since you are already talking to girls, you get a confidence boost.

It's important to project a sexual image among your friends though; I've been in situations where I felt like the "gay friend" and that didn't help at all. I've also been in the position where my friends are playful and flirty (in a friendly way), and I can feel other girls looking at me.

You shouldn't be ashamed of flirting in front of your friends, plus if you have mutual attraction with one of your female friends, it raises your value in her eyes. I used to think that if a girl saw me flirting with another girl, it lowered my possibilities, when in fact, it's the opposite.

Title	How to game while with female friends?
Author	Self_improvement474
Upvotes	13
Comments	10
Date	October 16, 2016 8:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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