How to get past LAZINESS?

Liberaler · 2020-08-15T19:57:09+00:00

If you constantly have no drive to move forward in life, you have to look in your past. There will be something, that is not resolved yet. The natural state of humans is to be driven forward by passion and curiosity.

Therocksays2020 · 2020-08-15T19:58:07+00:00

If you’re not in school and you don’t like dating apps. I assume bars and stuff are closed in your area you will have to research PUA and approach girls.

While I don’t use or care for tinder there’s nothing wrong with meeting someone on a dating app if it works. There’s no stigma there. It’s 2020 and people are busy and with covid meeting people is harder although not impossible.

You do what you have to do but if you aren’t interested in online. You’ll have to grow a pair of balls and approach some women in public

Teque9 · 2020-08-15T20:01:32+00:00

Damn, I really identify with what you say. It's not that I hate girls or that I am gay(My family's latin american and sometimes the ask me this. There you HAVE to because it's expected for men to hook up a lot 😒), I just don't feel a drive like you said.

Also, I live in a small town with a technical university that is 70+% male. I've been told that since there are so many guys here, the girls don't want relationships but rather hookups since there's "a lot to choose from". Unfortunate.

In cities with "normal" universities it's the other way around. There's more women and they try to lock down guys since they are scarce there 🤔

deeferrier · 2020-08-15T22:20:50+00:00

What are you doing with your lazy time not going after a relationship? Your passions could lead you to a connection with someone with the same focus and interests. To increase the chance of that join diverse groups for your same interest, try to find groups online and care about the people you meet online like they are your peers and colleagues in that special interest that you have. When breakout groups form with people doing casual hangouts not directly related to the interest, join those. Keep a lookout for people you especially vibe with, and then (this is where the overcoming laziness part comes in!) notice things they like. Send them posts you think might make them smile.

Title	How to get past LAZINESS?
Author	usedtimecapsule
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	August 15, 2020 7:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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