How to keep conversation going

DaygameCode · 2024-08-22T21:42:31+00:00

Women connect by sharing how you feel about things. So you can talk about anything really as long as you make it about how any thing makes you feel. Raged, triggered, amazed, surprised, joyful, ashamed, resentful, frustrated, excited, hopeful, bored, disgusted, motivated, hyped, nostalgic, sad, euphoric, intrigued,... etc When you focus on expressing how literally any topic in the world makes you feel you can talk about anything for hours. But then again you need to know how to express feelings in a way which is deep, not generic like "i feel good" because that's just lazy.

Peace.

Daygame Coach

MFGEngineer4Life · 2024-08-22T20:01:55+00:00

Just try to have a genuine interest in them & ask questions about their life & what they do in a non interviewy type of way & say how it relates to you. Laugh & tease them here and there in between & you're golden.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-22T20:56:26+00:00

You know a good conversation always branches out. Unlike for example, a professional debate where debaters need to stick to a topic thus a moderator is needed. This is how a conversation is going. It flows because you listen and break down all the information. Nothing is more interesting than people talking or getting asked about themselves. So you don’t “find” a topic, just listen to what she says.

Here’s an example:

You: what you up to?

Her: I just had brunch (A) with my sister (B)

You: brunch this late? Where at?

Her: at Denny’s (C)

Up to this point you have 3 topics you could branch out or shift: A, B, and C.

Expanding A:

You: oh yeah, what did you have?

Her: just the usual, a cheese burger.

You: damn, sounds boring. Next time go with lunch with me. I bet you’ll like this place

Her: oh yeah, where?

You: I’m not telling you till tomorrow. Tomorrow then?

She feels that you have a more interesting life than her, and more likely agree to have lunch with you.

Expanding B:

You: I didn’t know you have a sister.

Her: Yeah, she just turned 21 last month.

You: Bet she’s not as ugly as you. And.. better personality? * smile *

Her: fuck you * mad and frown *

You: haha just kidding. But seriously, am I right? Can I get her number?

Her: No and No!

Sisters usually have rivalry, like women you can also throw shit tests at her

Expanding C:

You: Denny’s? What are you, a truck driver?

Her: No! (Feeling invalidated). That’s just the closest one from here (trying to validate it)

You: or you just have a poor taste * smile *. That’s fine, tho. I like you just the way you are.

Now she’s confused, you said you like her but you also said she’s a truck driver

Being witty or flirty is very subjective. It all depends whether she’s pretty close to you, or you just met her, her personalities, etc.

davedude97 · 2024-08-22T22:23:23+00:00

I usually can talk bullshit for hours cause of my adhd. One time i had a ritalin before a date and this happened - there was literally nothing on my head to talk about. I just made fun of it and told i can't think of anything to say right now - have you had similar situations before, and she immediately got more comfortable and said she has that all the time and we bonded over not able to converse in social situations. It didnt work out in the end after 2 dates - but that taught me that being authentic and honest is the best way to go. But the thing to point out is i expressed what i was going through and got curious in her if she had a similar experience. People love it when you are vulnerable and they also open up. All the best - be yourself and put yourself out there.

Alphagreen_97 · 2024-08-22T20:28:42+00:00

The problem is not you running out of things to say, but having a problem with silence.

If you shut up for a second, she will probably start feeling akward and invest herself. Let her invest. Always.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-08-23T06:13:15+00:00

One tip is use the search feature to find other related posts. If you don't have intelligence in this world how do you achieve anything.

epimpstyle · 2024-08-23T09:10:59+00:00

This is why there are all kinds of routines/jokes/gambits/scripts, because when a moment of silence occurs, you automatically have something to say and create a new topic to talk about. Until you gain experience in talking to women, you need such a routine even if they look creepy or forced, you can adjust them to fit your personality. If a woman has a topic to talk about, it will make everything easier, it is a bit hard just in the beginning.

Puzzleheaded-Pin-558 · 2024-08-25T05:18:34+00:00

If you run out of topics just dont say anything else until u come up with something or just tell her youll text her back later

This is important to let the conversation breathe and not bombard her with questions

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-08-22T21:03:57+00:00

Stop thinking about conversations as linear information exchanges. Learn how to have fun and become unfiltered. Learn about free association.

DeanLD30 · 2024-08-22T21:31:38+00:00

Try to focus on your curiosity, allow that to inspire the conversation.

Title	How to keep conversation going
Author	JornadadelMuerto7
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	August 22, 2024 7:55 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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