How to keep tempo up when they’ve already stayed over on the first date

RealisticDiscipline7 · 2025-05-15T22:07:13+00:00

If it’s not that there was something wrong with the sex, sounds like youre saying there wasnt, then could be these women dont want to seem too easy and want you to know they expect more than just sex. So give them a date or two, then invite over.

Playful_Dot_537 · 2025-05-15T22:10:14+00:00

I have found in general that if a woman wants to fuck on the first or second date, she is usually pretty okay just coming over again to fuck. You can eat or take a walk later. That is secondary to her if the sex was good. She can have a meal with anyone.

It's very possible that your pivot from "sex" to "a walk" is communicating to her that either you are pushing for a relationship or that you just didn't think the sex was that good.

So yeah, a quick convo helps as well to set expectations.

Looooong_Man · 2025-05-16T00:20:38+00:00

I usually do drinks for first date. And then activity (ie - mini golf or weird art exhibit or axe throwing) for second date. This seems to keep the momentum going for me whether sex happened on the first date or not.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-05-15T22:01:52+00:00

Have you considered asking them?

Title	How to keep tempo up when they’ve already stayed over on the first date
Author	Exxtraa
Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	May 15, 2025 9:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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