How would I give a comment or joke that is sexualized in order to seduce?

Typical_Connection · 2020-10-21T09:27:28+00:00

So you want to use a sexual comment to score on an online platform that won’t convey the sarcasm/joking manner well, and in a foreign country where you aren’t proficient in the language.

Yup 2 great practice options there alright...

If you have to ask this question you don’t even have close to the amount of charisma needed to pull this off and not look rapey.

I’d highly advise you scratch this idea and just stick to kino on dates if you want to be sexual

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-10-21T03:08:14+00:00

Wont work over tinder cause theres no context, tone shift and nonverbals.

Imagine you texted a girl "your ass needs work". Theres no context, no tone shifts or nonverbal cues it's meant as a flirt.

Vs

You take her hand, spin her around, stop midway to stare at her butt. Complete the spin, pause and think to yourself and then say disappointed "your ass needs some work".

Both are the same but yet different at the same time.

revente · 2020-10-21T02:53:28+00:00

Its all context based. Much better to do that in real life than online co you can see her and calibrate.

backagainfortha1time · 2020-10-24T03:13:08+00:00

If you’re hot you’ll be seductive, if you’re ugly then you’ll be a creeper...... other than that there’s no reason to make a sexualized joke.

BensonInFL · 2020-10-21T05:39:22+00:00

been wanting to try giving a sexual joke or comment but I’m afraid of being seen as creepy

I've had more success when its subtle or there is *some* ounce of plausible deniability... for example.. today I was talking to a gymnast who was thinking of quitting, I pivoted to flexibility.. and at some point told her I could 'help her with her stretches.. and really stretch her out'... there was a good reaction.. but if it was bad.. I would have playfully accused her of having a dirty mind while I'm just trying to help her...

-B

Title	How would I give a comment or joke that is sexualized in order to seduce?
Author	Mechengine2
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	October 21, 2020 2:33 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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