I am reading about Elliot Rodger and

FairAnalyst · 2019-09-30T05:29:44+00:00

I don't even know if there's a point to your post.

I just want to say that most women reject in a very polite way. Like the first example, and not like your second one.

I mean the rudest rejection I ever got was "no thanks" right after my opener.

Most are like "Thanks. I appreciate it, but I have a bf." Some girls have told me they appreciate being approached and wish guys did it more often.

401kisfun · 2019-09-30T08:50:03+00:00

I read and watched about this guy on YouTube. He had kind of a messed up home life, but he perceived everything in a very negative way. Every event, every interaction. He had zero ability to have fun for himself. I say this from having the perspective of being unlovable, unwanted, and unliked. People can and often are dicks/self-centered/inconsiderate/unappreciative, socially and in dating. But even then one should be positive even alone, to find some joy and laughter in the world.

Lambo_Moonski · 2019-10-10T12:51:46+00:00

Im just perplexed why he killed 5 men and only 2 chicks....... and he didn’t even attempt to rape them, it just doesn’t add up. Am I right?

PuroPincheGains · 2019-09-30T06:14:50+00:00

Stop reading about the incel murderer Elliot Rodger. Stop posting about him here. He could have benefited from some inner game work but he has nothing to do with this community. He is wrong in every way.

Yes, we live in a society that expects men to make the first move, despite what anyone says or how that makes anyone feel. You don't have to like it, but to succeed, you do have to embrace it. That should be fine; being bold and going after what you want with determination and confidence are perfectly good masculine personality traits to work on.

Yes, looking at women the wrong way could be sexual harassment. If you're across the room sticking your tongue out and acting like you're eating someone out, then yeah, you're a big creep. That said, nobody has been sent to jail for smiling at a woman. We preach the 3 second rule anyways. You see someone you find attractive, you approach. You shouldn't have any opportunities to creepily stare at women anyways if you're stepping up to the plate and being social.

No, women may not be kind while rejecting you. If they are cruel, that doesn't say anything about you. They're the ones with a problem if they can't turn you down without insults or anger. However, most of the time, nobody is going to go out of their way to make you feel shitty. There's a reason girls do things like give fake numbers, say they have boyfriends, etc. Aside from the small chance that you might be a mass murderer, the biggest reason they do those things is because they don't want to hurt your feelings. It doesn't achieve what they intend, but still the fact is, mostly nobody is out to hurt you.

Yes if you're mentally weak, rejection might hurt you. That's why we preach inner game. If you're mentally weak, you are not ready for a girlfriend. The fallacy is that getting a woman will make you happy. That's not what dating is about. People are not tools to fill in the wholes in your heart. If you can't look in the mirror and honestly say that you would date that person, then why should anyone else? Fix yourself, become a better you, and then look for romance. Live, Laugh, Love. In that order.

If you're feeling distressed about your love life or your personal life, your masculinity, your purpose, whatever; please ask for advice here and don't be afraid to see a therapist. That's all part of becoming a better you. You have nothing to gain by reading the delusions of a man who gave up on life and couldn't even take personal responsibility for that decision.

Title	I am reading about Elliot Rodger and
Author	timetorock19
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Comments	5
Date	September 30, 2019 3:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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