I've been trying to make something out of myself in the last 2 months, but it feels hopeless. I always tell myself that I would do cold approach tomorrow, and tomorrow and just never commit to it like a procrastinating idiot.

In the gym, on my way to class, in town, I can never muster up the courage to walk up to a girl and say "Hi I'm 2Siders, I know this is really random but I thought you were cute and I just wanted to say hi".

I thought if I at least try I could forget my bitch of an ex as well but I can't. I'm a lame ass noob. I've been reading Models, went back to the gym, different sport classes, started going to a meditation class and to events more often. But it just doesn't work.

Girls in clubs ignore me straightaway, so I just tell myself I'll approach daytime. Then I tell myself I'll pull at night in the club.

Any suggestions or am I helpless? Someone said I need more time to develop my inner self before I should even try, but I just want to walk into a club or walk up to a girl and ACE that shit right now.