Wow, it's been a while since my last visit here. For start I wanted to say, for all the newcomers who are reading this, that no matter how bad you are with women the stuff you find here really works.

Getting back on the topic. For the last year the tricks and advice I found here got me laid / into relationship and into FBW. Amazing.

However, I met a girl I really liked and I failed to escalate. I failed like a rookie, when time felt right I didn't go for the kiss and the girl lost her interest - I supppose so. I decided to let it go, leave the ball on her side and eject, stop making fool out of myself.

I need advice from a little more experienced sedditors. How do you get over the mind set that tells you to hesitate, to think and not act because you might fuck things up and lose the girl?

I noticed that there are 3 types of women out there. The ones you don't want to sleep with, the ones you want to sleep with and the ones you're getting ridicoulusly anxious when you're around them.

I got scared, I admit, I got scared of rejection, I hesitated and it was the second time it happened to me. How do you apply the "correct" mind set to every single women you meet? Especially the ones you are really into?

Or maybe there is no real cure for that and all I have to do is just to approach even more woman and after some time I will get used to that?