I forget everything I learned when I'm on the field?

SexySmexxy · 2014-10-13T16:50:58+00:00

I get so into what the other person is saying that I just forget to be Alpha and create attraction.

Stop "trying" to be alpha, it's not going to work.

Work on loving yourself, like as a person, learn to realise that you're awesome and the rest will follow.

And if you think that "being at school" in itself is "infield", even though I really am not a fan of the whole PUA scene itself, I'm not quite sure you have the write idea.

Learn to be a confident, chillaxed dude, if you're trying to be alpha while still worrying what other people think about you then you're doing it wrong.

SpaceTire · 2014-10-13T22:18:07+00:00

Maybe sit down and make a few key points. Like,

*make strong eye contact

*escalate with Kino

*Open with Question, wait for answer, tell her she is pretty with introduction.

Put these into a note file on your phone. And when you are at the scene just pull it out and look at the bullets. Hopefully the bullet points will be enough to kick start your memory. If not, study more until you can memorize it.

And remember, the only reason why you can't remember this stuff is because you aren't fully in control of your emotions yet. Seduction is really about mastering your emotions.

theginger3469 · 2014-10-13T16:03:58+00:00

Start with one thing. For exmaple: remembering names. Once you've got that down, add another thing. Light Kino. Then go on from there.

Add one thing at a time until it is so natural you don't have to 'remember' it.

joshsway · 2014-10-13T20:01:32+00:00

This is very common. I wrote an article about this and how you can address the problem here: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/martial-arts-and-dating-advice

bDsmDom · 2014-10-14T00:49:04+00:00

This is not a problem. Honestly, you'll have more success if you can communicate with another person, than just use lines/game.

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-14T00:53:57+00:00

Put notes or a stack or 3 of each game component in your phone and look at it before sets.

breakingalltherules · 2014-10-14T02:03:09+00:00

You're not wasting endless hours researching and learning. I'll tell you why. Imagine a fish hook, but on a larger scale. Similar to what they put cows on to drain the blood. When you read and learn, you are making the hook. While doing initial research, you're making the straight part of the hook. Think about a hanger without the hook to loop around the bar. You're learning and it's just slipping off. However; by continuing to read and learn, you slowly develop the hook. Now you're able to read or learn something, and it starts to stay. Your hanger and hook are now doing what they are intended to do. I'd say you keep forgetting because you're in the initial stage of learning. It takes time to develop this hanger/hook. Don't quit, it'll come to you. Hope this helped.

rmbarnes · 2014-10-14T12:35:27+00:00

Try working on one thing at a time. I recently realised I wasn't making good eye contact in day game, so now I'm doing around 100 sets focusing on making good eye contact. The rest of the set can be shit, as long as I make the eye contact. At first you'll forget, but in time over the 100 sets you'll do it more or more often. Focusing on one thing stops the brain freeze that accompanies trying to remember everything.

NeoSamwell · 2014-10-14T18:30:28+00:00

Thank you all for the advise. I'm new here and I still have a lot to learn about seduction. Basically I don't think I have enough control of my emotions yet. I would greatly appreciate if you gives could share any books that have helped you get good at PUA or anything in general. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2j8m6z/book_recommendations/

Title	I forget everything I learned when I'm on the field?
Author	NeoSamwell
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	October 13, 2014 3:48 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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