Before I found Seddit, or reddit, I hooked up with about 30 girls and fucked about 12 or so. Just got out of a year and a half relationship and found NoFap and the seduction community at the same time. I just bought and read Models, this week, and today I got a cute girl's phone number for the first time in almost 2 years. I'm here trying to figure out how to proceed.

I'm mad confused yo-- Mark lays out the conundrum perfectly, but here's my interpretation-- if I show that I'm more invested in her than she is in me, I'll lose value and she'll lose interest. But I gotta show interest in order to turn her on and get anywhere. Mark's whole theory is defined by unapologetic honesty.

So, how do I be honest about my interest and turn her on with my desire, without demonstrating investment and conveying neediness?