I have a bartender my number

BonvivantNamedDom · 2021-04-17T19:17:21+00:00

Lol you get some points for going out and trying, but man this will lead nowhere for multiple reasons: even if she liked you a little bit she wouldnt make the first step and message/call you. Women arent wired like that.

But shes a bartender,she couldnt say no because her job is to be flirty with guys. Thats what gives her tips. That doesnt mean she liked you.

Just dont expect anything and take my advice: bartender girls are a no-date zone, unless you meet them outside of a pub. I only ever once went out with a bargirl, and she was A bit mental and I was a regular for months. Andcthat shouldnt give you hope because all the other hundreds of girls didnt.

rafr256 · 2021-04-17T19:36:09+00:00

You know what this is a step.

She was a “hired gun” so she is sort of being paid to be there and talker to customers is part of her job

But you went out, you weren’t look to talk to someone, but you did and you made a connection with someone.

I’m willing to bet all my GME shares that she will never call or text you, but at least you practiced socializing a little bit.

Good job. Baby steps

2021-04-17T23:59:11+00:00

It’s a nice first step! Just leave it there and if she reaches out she reaches out, no pressure.

avaleighswalker · 2021-04-18T02:24:49+00:00

I had a friend who used to say, “Aim to improve 1% everyday, by the end of the year you’ll be 365% the person you were.” #babysteps

derekislegend · 2021-04-17T05:32:28+00:00

I’m sorry but no...Your number you gave her? That’s probably the 10th one she’s been given on her shift by other people TODAY! Bartenders get receipts with dudes phone numbers like people breathe air...it’s nothing out of the ordinary. I wouldn’t give yourself props for something like this honestly...now if she gave YOU her phone number (meaning she actually put her number in your phone) then that would be something to be proud of and build off of...writing your number onto a receipt isn’t game my friend

Cokelobos24 · 2021-04-17T19:10:21+00:00

The seduction is strong in this sub. Parents plz, hide your daughters from redditors.

Just kidding, go ahead with that improvements!

sockaccount12348 · 2021-04-18T23:34:14+00:00

Brah I work in the service industry. Unless she already has a crush on you she ain’t texting you back. Trust. Bartenders flirt for money. So do servers. None of them wanna be picked up at work (for the most part). Find out where the restaurant employees hang out AFTER their shifts and you’ll have a much better chance

Title	I have a bartender my number
Author	Dhvu2481
Upvotes	18
Comments	20
Date	April 17, 2021 5:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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