2 mini stories

So I went to this music event a girl approached me and when I was sitting down. She shook my hand and we started taking about which group we want to see and she did the flirty body language and playful laugh and everything. I froze and didn't do sh!t. I talked though but couldn't bring myself to ask her to hang or get her Instagram.

And today I went to visit a restaurant and this girl said she wanted to see me and I didn't have the balls to go and for her when I was the register. I saw her there and everything. Idk what is wrong with me.

I started working out and got a good job and everything but I just freeze up or fail on the commit