I messed up...

Manhack · 2012-03-18T09:56:18+00:00

I couldn't tell if she flirted with me because she noticed I was checking her out all night or if she was actually interested.

It doesn't matter. What does matter is that you flirt back and are outcome independent.

It sounds like you are dwelling on the negatives of the situation without turning that into a constructive sentiment. Don't get stuck in the negatives. Move forward and make progress.

revbobdobbs · 2012-03-18T10:54:54+00:00

By the time i could work up the courage (being DD means no liquid courage) She had left.... What do you guys think?

Yes, you messed up.

Welcome aboard.

Your path to becoming a seductive man will be filled with failures and suffering. And lots of cool stuff too. You will mess up lots. We all do. For every fantastic FR where the player had a great time and a great night, and maybe even got the girl(s), there are a bunch of lame nights.

Yes, you could have done better.

But what I'd like to tell you is that the path is very rarely a smooth one.

I think there's and quote from one of the RSD guys that says something like "every failure is a brick in my palace". Maybe try and keep that in mind when you get emotionally effected by a "failure". (which we all do, because "failure" is normal).

falxter · 2012-03-18T10:08:40+00:00

How about next time you see someone interesting just DGAF and approach! Seriously, what's there to lose?

At any rate, after those IOI's it would have been very easy to close.. imo you should try to have more fun next time you're out and be much more comfortable in your own skin.. perhaps focus on your inner game?

Stythe · 2012-03-18T14:03:33+00:00

A random woman walked up to you, get's in your bubble, puts a piece of you on her, asks your opinion about her looks then compliments you and you couldn't tell if she was flirting with you?

Here's a pro tip. Think about it from an outsiders perspective. If you were watching someone else and saw that, what would you think? Yes, she was trying to get your attention.

2012-03-18T09:56:46+00:00

I'm no pro on seduction by any means but girls don't usually return a flirt if they're not truly interested... unless it's a dare.

Kush_on_thebrain · 2012-03-18T10:12:33+00:00

If its a dare fuck it, tell the girl whats up than if shes hitting get on that cause if you don't who will.

gunner85 · 2012-03-18T12:51:05+00:00

She pt them back on my face and touched my nose and said "you look great"

She wanted you. You messed up bro, it happens to everyone. Take it as a lesson learned and you won't make the same mistake twice!

Dfnoboy · 2012-03-18T18:01:39+00:00

uhm, if she flirted with you because you were checking her out then that OBVIOUSLY FUCKING MEANS SHE WAS INTO YOU

not to be mean, but how can you be so dumb? really? like, "this girl walked up to me after I had been checking her out, and flirted with me. do you think she is in to me or she just really likes glasses?"

ugh

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-03-18T18:02:19+00:00

Wow, she did a classic Mystery Method routine on you. The glasses were a "lock-in prop." Mystery used to talk about having a hat or a scarf or whatever, and put it on the woman. This would lock her into your set. Let her wear it even if she leaves the set, it almost insures that she will return to a set with you, to return the prop. Mystery even used examples of props like "hey hold my pen." Just make sure it's not something that you can't afford to lose, like "hey hold my wallet."

puanerd · 2012-03-18T19:17:36+00:00

she was interested

you know what freaks out girls the most is when they feel you are freaked out by them

smashingcheese · 2012-03-18T09:30:15+00:00

lol being dd sucks

Title	I messed up...
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	March 18, 2012 9:24 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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