I think I have problem after the small talk.
Okay so yesterday was disaster I tried to think what I did wrong and two things I found that I don’t have answer.
1. I read micro expressions good so when I see disinterest I’m not even trying to change it which is hard because it is a lot of them- like until the smile I’m feeling stressed and uncomfortable.
2. Okay so yesterday most of them were old and three days ago I aproached girl that are really my type could be 10. But the thing is I compliment on the outfit ask my regular like what name and make assumptions about them like where they from and shit like that but I don’t really lead the convos so it dies and I have feeling they aren’t interested so I’m like trying extra which idk how to break.

  1. Bonus: some places I don’t know what comment can I give like I saw two beautiful outside the concert on their phone and I dropped a comment like I’m waking away saying that show was something but like some other places they are too dull.
    And I have a question isn’t it weird to wake up to someone and just say a comment
    Like imagine me across of them or far away walking to them and just be like hi … that show was something isn’t ?
    Or like a girl walking on the street and like giving a observation her “ הדרך שאת הולכת מראה שאת מלאה בביטחון ״
    I don’t know in Hebrew some of them sounds weird so I try my best.
    It is just doesn’t feel spontaneous and when I try make it spontaneous I feel this pressure in my head trying to social engineer it. Or like girl who are on a move my mind only comes up with compliment .
    Guys who do observation and contextual please let me know how you think like you see a girl (before you got to the stage it just pops into your head) what comes to mind like let’s say beach word association biking, heat , water so I would drop like is the water cold?

Also sometime when I do that I feel abit ridiculous like
Yesterday there was Chinese guy who was on two women just screaming then I came up to them “אתן יודעות מה הסיני רצה?״
They just said no walked away from me - maybe the way phrased it was not good.