How do you charm bad bitches?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2026-07-14T12:39:31+00:00

Generally speaking, you have to be polarizing in some manner. Being a middle of the road dude doesn’t work

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-14T12:31:48+00:00

By being a bad bitch yourself

readyforactiontuna · 2026-07-14T21:02:58+00:00

You can attract top 80% woman by being a top 20% man. you can achieve it only if when you enter a room with nine other men only one of these men is guaranteed to be hotter than you. no matter what kind of room it is. percentile proportions apply.

focus on your face, on your body. skin care gym diet hair care everything really.

jackthehat6 · 2026-07-14T13:20:51+00:00

I’m talking about those hard to get kinda girls

There's guys out there for whom she doesn't play 'hard to get' at all! She chases them! Be one of them guys

killremoshawty · 2026-07-14T20:25:47+00:00

By treating them like kids

confused_8357 · 2026-07-14T12:43:53+00:00

Something in ur interaction should make them speechless

Could be one of ur comebacks or ur ability to not at all be affevted when they are taking a dig on u.

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-07-14T18:48:53+00:00

Be more polarizing. Take risks with confidence

PpcUserNowI · 2026-07-14T12:52:22+00:00

dropping in for the fire tips bc i aint got no clue

daring_innovator · 2026-07-14T23:55:14+00:00

Great question, so when it comes to charming bad bitches a lot of men tend to over analyze & overthink the ‘HOW’ to approach them when what it really comes down is a simple mindset shift.

First off you gotta de-categorize them from bad bitch to just a woman. Women are women like any other woman they’re literally just people not any special category. Now instead of qualifying yourself to her you’re really qualifying herself to you. Ask yourself in your mind do I want to spend time with this person? If yes, read on.

Secondly, when you approach them keep the interaction simple but authentic. You should already have an ‘edge’ what is an edge? The edge is ‘WHO’ you are or a having a personality. Again don’t spiral into the how instead focus all energy into WHO you are and your own goals the rest will follow.

Be polarizing as others have mentioned, be masculine, be funny, witty, playful, very confident this is standard but extremely valuable to women. Don’t overthink it they’re just human beings.

As your talking to them don’t invest too much time trying to win them you should have a frame for initial conversation with the GOAL of trying to see if you like her. If you do and she’s vibing with you then state your intentions of setting up a date immediately. This is what I call mature man’s game. Simple conversation, simple compliments and state your intentions. My intention is to get to know you and see if there’s a spark. That’s it. Take the number, set the date, no over investment, no over analyzing.

Common themes you’ll run into with these types are them being way too egotistical in some cases and you getting triggered by what they’ll tell you. NEVER get triggered by them ever. Always be calm and ready to walk away on the spot. Self control and self respect are key here. The biggest shit test where 99% of men fail here is If they start to get YOU to qualify yourself to HER. DO NOT ANSWER if you do your cooked. If she starts with getting you to qualify yourself to her then she already thinks she’s above you, better than you and that’s a failing position for you. I’ll tell you how to prevent that or how to divert the conversation away from that so you keep the upper hand.

Instead, you want to lead the conversation and remain in control of the interaction to keep things time efficient for both parties. All women will see that. This is about YOU, what do YOU want from her? Be genuinely interested in her, ask questions fearlessly, find out if you even like her (qualify her), get to know her on the spot for a couple minutes find out if there’s a connection there. Never ever let her hijack the conversation and get you qualify yourself. Stop that. Women will ramble on and you’ll talk yourself out of interest if you let her control the frame. No. If she starts qualifying you simply acknowledge her by saying “it’s always important to see if there’s chemistry” then go back into qualifying her. You should be the one qualifying her then follow the steps I mentioned earlier:

-> Simple conversation (qualify her), simple compliments, state your intentions (goal). “My intention is to get to know you and see if there’s a spark.” That’s it. Take the number, set the date, no over investment, no over analyzing. If you want to take this mindset a step even further your goal should be to DISQUALIFY women entirely during the qualification process. Keep it simple 123, abc.

saryiahan · 2026-07-14T12:36:22+00:00

You don’t

jjboy91 · 2026-07-15T00:42:01+00:00

Sounds exhausting

Artistic-Simple-9062 · 2026-07-14T15:23:59+00:00

I sometimes think it’s not worth it to chase a bad bitch. I have dealt with a lot of these girls in my dating years and I will tell you this:

Getting them means you do stupid shit yourself. However, you have to be good looking and have money to keep playing the game.

They will USE you. It’s not about you, it’s about what you enable for them. As long as you are bad, she can be worse because you give her permission; if all goes wrong you go to jail and she gets off free. She will just blame it on you.

You are a dancing monkey or entertainer for her. Like hardcore- if she likes bad boy, you have to play it up to the 9th degree or you get dumped. She will probably cheat on you anyway. Even if she says she loves you and posts it on social media, she is looking around for sure. Bad bitches swing from one branch to another as soon as their own security is compromised. They want to be bad but it’s really an act; they care about their status way more. Bad bitches love themselves more than you for sure. A red flag is how often they take pictures of themselves especially for social media.

On the sex. I will say it’s good and you get some good stuff but you fight a lot too. Also she can totally ruin your day the next morning if an argument happens. The bad part is also sex. While it may be “good”, it may be just your turn and you don’t know who else you are sharing her with.

I solved the bad bitch problem with qualification game. I made it so that if girls go out with me they have to be into stuff I like that is healthy like fitness or eating well. I don’t drink anymore and they should be like that too. I have goals and she should too- both of us should be caring to each other as well. If she doesn’t buy a gift for me on my birthday or treat me once in a while to a nice dinner on her own, if I’m always doing nice things but she doesn’t ever, red flag. If she is a cheater I don’t date her. I will always ask if she ever cheated and also ask around too.

Sex is prob better with good girls, because it gets better with time and you have peace of mind longer term that she is really into you for you, not for some act.

Ultimately don’t date bad bitches long term. There is a reason for the saying - she’s not for you, she’s for everyone and it’s just your turn. Bad bitches are bad.

travioli90 · 2026-07-14T13:31:54+00:00

Money, good looks, height, and confidence

Pristineonk · 2026-07-14T13:27:31+00:00

be a bad boy

CumputerInside · 2026-07-14T19:36:36+00:00

Do you have a Lamborghini?

hydrolith · 2026-07-15T02:24:13+00:00

I'd say you can't really, either they into you or they're not and it's up to you to give them and you a chance to see! Having an open mind and not making assumptions is key, plus going for the one you think you really like the most!

ksa96 · 2026-07-14T19:57:13+00:00

A Baddie baddie used to like me - I'm talking about countless piercings tattoos no eyebrows razor wide split like Aang through her hair and just the overall don't fuck with me vibe that intimidated everyone. I did absolutely nothing special n she liked me simply coz I'm very very simple n kind in her eyes. She enjoyed teasing me with the most notorious questions n see me react. I did have witty responses that pleased her. I don't think I could've pulled her if I had 'tried'.

silver54 · 2026-07-14T15:53:23+00:00

if we are talking about instagram baddie types and those girls at the top of the beauty scale, money and/or status is usually required, regardless of your level of game and looks

contrary to what the PUA world would like you to believe, the hottest women go where the money goes because they have the power to not settle for less than that

you’ll notice all the legit IG baddie type girls are always with dudes that have money / status

there are exceptions occasionally where you might catch one through cold approach, social circle, or even a dating app

if you mean the hottest girls who don’t have a social media following and are local to you, social circle (includes the gym) and repeated exposure is what works best, or catching them on a dating app

cold approach is hardest. a veteran cold approach coach on here made a good post the other day talking about how rare it is to pull 8’s and 9s through cold approach

tldr: ig baddies go for money/status, hottest girls in general operate through social networks and occasionally apps. cold approach is hardest contrary to what PUAs will say because trust level is at its lowest. game doesn’t override that

ComradeCam · 2026-07-14T19:33:07+00:00

Money. Name brands. Buzzballs.

refreshingface · 2026-07-14T17:01:36+00:00

The only way to charm bad bitches is to be a bad bitch yourself.

Or have lots of money

Andrewfairlane · 2026-07-14T19:16:28+00:00

Money. Nice body. Eye contact.

Title	How do you charm bad bitches?
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	38
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Date	July 14, 2026 12:31 PM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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