No bs answer - how can I become a player?

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-07-12T16:48:13+00:00

Unironically “power of now,” the spirituality book on how to shut down your thinking mind

Hear me out… notice how dumb a lot of the most successful guys with women are? They aren’t overthinking what to say or how to micromanage their impression to her. Being able to turn off all those conditioned behaviours and neurotic holding patterns in your mind and just go up and be normal is huge.

And it’s hard to do because our lives are so cerebral. Especially for well-educated, nerdy guys

confused_8357 · 2026-07-12T16:40:32+00:00

You need to be in areas where a lot of single women hangout and you need to be forward and indifferent and shoot ur shot as much as possible. Its a numbers game

JoseMontonio · 2026-07-12T21:20:52+00:00

Just be forward and direct with them about your desire. Don't sugar coat.... But also- be confident about it. Own it.

U_DonB · 2026-07-13T02:58:15+00:00

Honestly, follow simple pickup project go on youtube. Go to their playlist here https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPvPi1qnjwR1T7UMSodSh0KFZN-tyHcop&si=Lmm54SAEjYrtufkS and then watch the project go episodes.

I have watched tons of stuff online for pickup, but the only people who managed to incentivize me to get the fuck up and approach girls and get dates were them.

They have good tips and after going over those fundamentals they have videos of themselves actually approaching women. They essentially teach stuff like the importance of approaching women and treating it as learning the skill of pickup and not giving a shit about getting rejected. Learn to show your interest in woman and be unapologetic. Essentially, if youre talking to a woman, dont be a fucking bitch. Like deadass. Flirt, compliment her or tell her you thought she was attractive. Be close to her when you talk to her. Dont filter yourself so much. Dont be scared to be close to her. Obviously, have discernment, but understand the difference between a friendly distance and a flirting distance. Talk with a lower voice, not a nervous upward inflection. Dont be over excited. Put you and her in an us mentality. When you shake her hand hold it and only let her be the one to remove it.

They have good content. They are the best. No other has helped me like them

TelephoneDangerous54 · 2026-07-13T03:55:08+00:00

Just to the first part: talk to a lot of beautiful ladies.

Objective_Flamingo33 · 2026-07-12T16:10:19+00:00

models mark manson is pretty much the baseline knowledge u need

big_daug6932 · 2026-07-13T01:51:31+00:00

Being confident is the key. Having that big dick energy.

ProjectBrilliant3638 · 2026-07-13T03:28:08+00:00

Find a way to make your intentions clear and take the lead. Then, get straight back to business.
You should be in a state of abundance, where you genuinely don’t need the girl.
Set up your own social environment.

And I agree, do some cold approaches (nighttime & daytime).
When you’ll get back to normal ways to meet women, you’ll be 10x more flirty but still emotionally intelligent.

Do stuff man

clarkcunt_ · 2026-07-13T00:36:52+00:00

Snort some cocaine and talk to bitches

MysticTemptress76 · 2026-07-12T16:16:30+00:00

LoL i would smell the BS from across the room.

vertascend · 2026-07-13T04:03:09+00:00

Trust me; it’s a lottttt of work; and can sometimes get overwhelming or underwhelming

killremoshawty · 2026-07-13T15:36:54+00:00

You wanna dance around the idea without saying it

IdeaLonely · 2026-07-13T20:22:33+00:00

Meditate to control your emotions, journal to control your behavior

midguet12 · 2026-07-14T05:39:31+00:00

Start talking to them

Silver-Snow-9305 · 2026-07-19T11:09:17+00:00

Women are easy , talk sweet, make a move, bring them home, have sex! They are the best ! Fuck loads of them. NEVER FORCE

teenagepuddin · 2026-07-13T01:13:12+00:00

Being a player as in breaking ppls hearts? If so that’s just messed up and you need to grow up. If your just going around on one night stands then get apps lmao

natural-situation420 · 2026-07-12T19:15:05+00:00

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119326/?ref_=ext_shr Watch this movie, then you will know all you need to know.

Title	No bs answer - how can I become a player?
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	61
Comments	59
Date	July 12, 2026 4:09 PM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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