I think I finally understood what game is

Key-Proud · 2026-07-08T09:09:56+00:00

No that is just 30% ... 70% is inner stuff to get the girl(s) attracted to you.

70% is basically having high self esteem and the ability to get present in the moment ... - you can get present in the moment through following a process and getting reference experience. - the 30% are techniques to move it to what your goal is.

You can have 100% and have the girl fall foe you ... but then it doesnt go anywhere. That is why we split it 70/30. - this ratio is how to get to human peak performance... according to science.

Dont forget you are not the only guy going for the same girl. If both guys, the hotter the girl multiple guys, apply the same techniques ... who wins? - the guy who follows the process (working on 70%) ... will get the girl comfortable with your 30% escalation. - the guy who doesnt work on 70% will not get the girl (and yourself) comfortable when performimg the 30% technique to escalate.

You have a long ways to go ... lol

321sleep · 2026-07-08T17:48:33+00:00

You learn game by playing the game. You can watch YouTube, read posts, read books or even take a seminar on game. But the only way to learn game is to practice until you get competent. (It took me around a year- year 1/2). Once you’re competent the game is ridiculously fun.

confused_8357 · 2026-07-08T08:03:24+00:00

You forgot that game also involves indifference or outcome independence.

Its the hardest thing to learn.

Kaloty01 · 2026-07-08T05:12:25+00:00

Ya. Escalation is the game mate

Hour_Zero · 2026-07-08T08:00:50+00:00

Idc what anybody says, negging works. Use it to your advantage, in the modern playing field where men are at an inherent disadvantage when it comes to dating compared to women due to the influx social media and dating apps, anything is fair game

Prestigious_Water336 · 2026-07-08T08:45:55+00:00

Sounds like you got it

Kronuk · 2026-07-08T16:20:24+00:00

Game is the ability to get what you want out of the game of life. When it comes to women that is all aspects of yourself, your seduction skills, how you walk, how you talk, your vocal intonation, how you hold eye contact, how you touch a woman, how you don’t care internally if she rejects or wants you, not needing her for anything but wanting her, stories you tell, playfulness you have, etc. that’s why there are separations of inner and outer game and that game goes beyond women too, you can use seduction to gain things like wealth and power or fame.

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-07-08T15:02:34+00:00

Game is the ability to pull women. To do that there are a lot of different building blocks. One of the most important blocks is innergame.

epimpstyle · 2026-07-08T16:37:08+00:00

Yeah, everything you said is 100% correct... that’s what GAME is all about.

As for inner game, don't bother with it. It's a waste of time, it's just fluff talk.

The question is how do I learn and if I’m correct ?

Some things you don't need to learn because they are completely instinctual, like reading the room or being able to read people. Other things, you just need to memorize, like learning 3 -4 funny stories and jokes, and memorizing 3 - 4 gambits for escalation. Once you have those, you have a strong base you can work with.

The rest will come with experience, you will learn by yourself or, if you're lucky, you can learn on forums or on this sub how other people make jokes, how they escalate, or what kind of preparation they do before approaching just to make things easier. However, it's hard to find this kind of information because anyone who actually does this is automatically labeled as 'trying too hard,' 'not being honest,' or 'seeking validation' ... all kinds of silly things like that. When in fact, this right here is exactly what GAME means.

montymelo · 2026-07-08T05:37:11+00:00

🌳

Every_Implement_4433 · 2026-07-08T05:39:35+00:00

Field practicing, trial and error, refinement of protocols.

southparkslope · 2026-07-08T05:58:11+00:00

No. You have to go out and try. And fail. Guys who get rejected will pull.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-08T06:05:22+00:00

You learn by trial and error

rocksos · 2026-07-08T15:42:47+00:00

yeah, it seems to basically be pushpull lines etc. That's the attraction part of 'game' apparently. Once she's attracted it's easy. (e.g when a girl approaches me and hits on me, i never do anything special at all and it still works out because i have attraction)

J4nosch · 2026-07-08T18:19:57+00:00

GAME. I love this word

messias94 · 2026-07-08T18:32:59+00:00

Es geht darum ein selbstverständnis zu entwickeln mit Frauen die man Toll findet in Kontakt zu treten und das beste draus zu machen.

2_brainz · 2026-07-10T13:14:42+00:00

Yeah that’s what game is. Easier understood than implemented

Title	I think I finally understood what game is
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	65
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Date	July 8, 2026 5:09 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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