I NEED TO HELP ON CLOSING!

ohsleeperarise · 2013-10-19T21:39:58+00:00

Sac up.

2013-10-20T00:50:31+00:00

If it doesn't seem like she wants it, then you're with the wrong girl or you've been too passive and non sexual. Personally I used to struggle with closing a lot until I realized that ultimately, the moment will never seem right and you simple just need to take a shot and trust that if she likes you two will kiss even if it's not the smoothest thing. Just think, if a girl you were into initiated the kiss, would you reject her? No, you'd just go along with it. If she likes you it'll work, if not, depending how she rejects you try again or be happy you don't need to waste each others time.

If you start feeling like you should kiss her, you already should have. She's probably feeling the same way. Grab both of her hands as you talk to her, pull her in, triangular gaze (eyes lips eyes etc), then just use one of your hands to pull her chin up and go in.

baconessisgodlyness · 2013-10-20T15:27:45+00:00

Honestly, all it takes is a lull in conversation. If you both suddenly stop talking but are making tons of crazy eye contact just put on a sly smile and go for it. It's really the best feeling in the world.

Or if you still haven't the balls for that when you're dropping her off after a date one day just say "hold on. I still don't known if we have chemistry yet" or "I'll see ya later but I'm kissing you before I go" By blurting these out you're forcing yourself to make a move.

bl1y · 2013-10-19T22:38:45+00:00

Shazam!

HelloHiHello · 2013-10-20T01:48:59+00:00

There are "moments" that happen sometimes. Like you're with a girl, she sits up, you realize "damn I should kiss her!", then you do it. That's a moment, and it's ALWAYS good to take those opportunities.

However, they don't always exist, and even when they do, they're very easy to miss. Therefore, we have to CREATE our own moments instead of waiting on life to provide them.

It doesn't ever have to be smooth (although it will be often). Instead, you simply need to take the ACTION. Kiss her. That's all you need to do. You don't need to "find a moment", you simply need to kiss her.

One thing that's made kissing much easier for me is an "it's on moment". This is something you do that announces your intentions, which a girl can either accept or reject. One thing I do is go for a hand hold if I'm not sure how the girl feels about me. If she accepts the hand hold, the kiss is on FOR SURE, and I can kiss her after that point with no pressure whatsoever, regardless of the existence of a "moment".

Holding a hand is usually easier and more subtle than kissing too, so it can really help if you don't feel like you have a ton of courage at the moment.

joshsway · 2013-10-19T22:33:19+00:00

If it isn't obvious that a kiss can happen, you probably did not build enough attraction. A kiss isn't that huge a deal anyway. Focus on making them attracted to you, not on getting something out of them.

subseed · 2013-10-20T16:50:26+00:00

Why would you kiss them anyway? If you don't try to kiss them, they'll try to kiss you. Right? If you don't try, they'll definitly kiss you, boy. Don't try anything!

Title	I NEED TO HELP ON CLOSING!
Author	KeepAccount123
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	October 19, 2013 9:32 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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