I needa make a change asap

somethinlikeshieva · 2024-12-20T05:23:54+00:00

hey man atheist you have friends, j got family tho. j think the most depressing thing about my situation is I'm a very well put together guy that I really shouldn't be this 'single'. I understand that the world doesn't owe me anything but it's very discouraging and hurtful to see other men in a worse off spot in their life doing better than you romantically

MikeJamesReal1981 · 2024-12-20T05:18:53+00:00

Acknowledge It: Feeling lonely and horny is normal, but don’t dwell—use it as motivation to change.
Get Active: Hit the gym or pick up a hobby. Physical activity boosts mood and confidence.
Socialize with Purpose:
- Go to new places or events where you can meet people.
- Use dating apps strategically—don’t half-ass it.
Replace Porn: Swap it with exercise or engaging content that keeps your mind off it. Even video games!
Focus on Effort: Nothing happens without action—take small steps and build momentum.

Cheers!

Prize_Time3843 · 2024-12-20T17:01:24+00:00

OP, maybe the effort you need to make isn't the one you're assuming. Not every woman is looking for what you assume they are. What do you already have to offer? What do you want in a woman?

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-23T08:50:09+00:00

The problem with change is that you want to make jumps when your muscles forgot how to effectively walk. Anxiety and passiveness is but a natural reaction to your dreams. Start from scratch and make small steps, throw yourself in environment and situations where you won’t be in charge and making progress will be beyond your decisions. Accept every opportunity to socialize with people and do things that you have never done before, even small ones.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-20T07:09:57+00:00

You get out of this state by taking action.

Title	I needa make a change asap
Author	Zestyclose_Payment28
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	December 20, 2024 4:25 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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