I should be ready there and then?

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-09T21:56:55+00:00

Why didn't you just tell her to do what turns you on? Dance for you, finger her pussy, lick your feet? Women want to be told what to do in bed. Stop being a nice guy.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-10T03:24:48+00:00

It seemed like she didn't really care honestly. But also, you should flip it back on her. Your framing it as if you're the one in the wrong or you have to prove to her that it's okay you need time to get turned on. The more attractive girls are used to guys just being thankful for the opportunity to sleep with them and guys just seeing their body and then catering to them. If it takes you a little bit, just tell her it takes you a little bit. If anything, it will raise your value a little bit and make her insecure because she actually has to work to get you turned on instead of most other guys who she doesn't have to work for.

gtaIIIstan · 2024-03-10T05:20:42+00:00

Huh? All she said was that she was ready for round 2. It's YOU who chose to think that meant you needed to be immediately ready to go all the way again, rather than simply smiling, moving closer to her, enjoying her body, doing some foreplay and then moving forward from there. This whole arc is what round 2 is and what sex is. It's not just the penetrative part and if you actually understood this, you wouldn't be getting so reactive by a totally benign and positive comment.

Yes, some might see her reaction thereafter as a bit silly. But I do not take her literally and it's consistent with how women act when you're passive and putting her on the spot, hence her "does this not make you turned on?" Bottomline, you need to be more of a leader. Just SHOW her how want to be turned on through your actions. This will always win the day over stilted, overt, and serious language ("I can't get hard on command") that doesn't solve a single problem but might create several.

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-09T18:10:31+00:00

How could I say or what I should do to tell her I need to get turned on too rather than be ready on command?

My dude, you literally just wrote out that you did. She didn't give a fuck. Now, this relationship is worth more to you than your dignity, or else you would have fired this shit out the airlock the second she pointed at herself. Get right with your lack of dignity, we can't echo chamber it back to life.

Title	I should be ready there and then?
Author	baha2116
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	March 9, 2024 6:06 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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