We've been friends for about a decade now and we're both in our mid 20s in the middle of our careers. She absolutely loves my cooking and I love cooking for her. We split the bills and neither of us bring anyone over. How do I find out if she's feeling the same way or make a move? A part of me doesn't want to because I want to save our friendship but a part of me feels like she likes me more because she's always striking up conversations and I get too flustered and end the conversation early so I don't feel like I'm boring her. Now we talk a lot less and I don't know how to get that energy back. Idk I feel dumb and I'm questioning my feelings the more I type this out.