i'm frustrated.

DriedUpPlum · 2019-05-08T18:27:23+00:00

I understand your frustration. Virginity is not the source of your problems. How you view women is.

The only reason men think women care that much about looks is because men care that much about looks. Let that set in.

How can men think women are so different but still think they have the same priorities as men when it comes to dating and relationships?

You think women are judging you in the way you judge them. Which means you are putting words in their head or imagining what they think before you even know them and they know this is what’s going on behind your eyes.

Why not just wait to get to know one before judging one? Rushing to make inferences before even hearing them speak and act is you NEEDING to know them. You’re already playing out a script you’ve written for them in your head without even knowing if she is the right person to be reading the lines.

How is there any way for that attitude to come off as anything BUT creepy or needy?

jzell3 · 2019-05-08T18:44:12+00:00

ACCEPT WHAT AND WHO YOU ARE
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE, WORKOUT, FIND YOUR PURPOSE
FOCUS ON MAKING MALE FRIENDS FIRST THAT ARE COOL GUYS
SEEK HELP VIA THERAPY

Doraemonlam · 2019-05-08T20:55:38+00:00

Look isn’t the problem.

I have a fat 5 foot 3 asian friend living in LA scoring 4 digits before he turns 30. Unless you got some serious fire accident and your face is completely deformed, you can’t get worse than my friend.

So, tell us more about your life, interest, background, etc. may be we can help, but don’t jump to any conclusion so quick yet.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-05-08T20:58:59+00:00

Thing a lot of virgins (the anxious ones) forget is that even IF you happen to have sex and lose your virginity, NOTHING IN YOUR LIFE CHANGES. If you are socially awkward before sex, you will still be socially awkward after. If you are creepy and most girls avoid you, guess what, having sex doesnt change that.

Even crazier, what happens if losing your virginity is the one and only time you have sex - then what?? What happens to you...do you go back to being depressed and anxious for sex? You have to be realistic

Title	i'm frustrated.
Author	Omario6
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	May 8, 2019 6:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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