I'm going to stop drinking for a while ...

norwegiandoggo · 2024-04-15T06:07:20+00:00

If I understand you correctly, you feel some social anxiety / approach anxiety. And then you use drinking to give a little bit "less of a fuck".

Without drinking you have to grow bigger balls and give less of a fuck on your own. You have to push yourself more than you otherwise would.

Alcohol is like using training wheels on your bicycle. It helps you feel less afraid in the beginning, and it sure feels scary when you take the training wheels off. But if you never take them off you're a little sissy. Grow some balls and do shit on your own without training wheels / crutches. Yes that's extra scary to begin with. Deal with it. You're a big boy

Pompompary · 2024-04-15T02:01:06+00:00

Drinking is all I got, I approach, if I get rejected I drink, if not I just sip. By the end of the night, I’ve either met someone special or I am drunk, I almost got hit by a car, so hopefully one of these days I either die or find that special someone.

Life is what it is, God opens doors no man can shut, and closes one’s no man can open. If it’s not your time, it’s not your time.

postbody · 2024-04-15T03:56:53+00:00

You just gotta get good. If you find a girl you like you approach no matter how inconvenient it will be for you.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-04-15T03:52:55+00:00

after pandemic I took the same approach, I just had spent way too much fucking time at a farm lol, hey I tried psychedelics and it helped me a bit, here is the thing, just talk to alot of people on the phone, call random shit you psych yourself up, then go in person, go to grocery stores and shit talk to people random people do it for a ocuple of hours, you will feel a whole lot better, are you in college or where do you usually go to meet women?

Miguell7 · 2024-04-15T09:42:59+00:00

Good. Just approach the girl.

Title	I'm going to stop drinking for a while ...
Author	Nawfside_B_Rose
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	April 15, 2024 1:12 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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