Hey all, so this is my current situation: I’m in my second year of college so I’m already 20, and I’ve never been in a relationship, and kind of want to get a girlfriend. HOWEVER, in my teens I was practically invisible to girls, and now I’m in college where you’re supposed to “Have fun and run wild” (Sleep around with a bunch of women) so I’m kinda in a pickle because one side of me knows that I wasted my teens not talking to girls, and that there are so many girls at uni, so that’s a great way for me to have abundance and have fun, to make up for the lost time. But the other side of me wants that one person that’s my person that I can spend time with and do fun activities with. So what do I do? To sum things up, should I sleep around to make up for the lack of years I wasn’t social, or is it a good time to get into dating and gaining some relationship experience?