So, basically I feel like I'm missing some important lesson.

I'm an average looking 22yo guy, no David Beckham but I'm active and get compliments from girls about my looks so that's not an issue.

I'm also a pretty outgoing guy, like going out, have friends, ect. I usually have an easy time meeting people and can make people laugh. So my social skills are not too bad either. People usually describe me as a nice guy, which is the box I'm trying to get out of.

Problem is, I get almost no action. Had a girlfriend for a couple years, but we basically never had sex so I ended it (another story I want to move on from). Had a one night stand since then and also fucked my ex but safe to say I'm not really confident about sex. That probably holds me back more than I realise.

Anyway, I decided I wasn't happy and have been working to improve my game. Other than self improvement I decided I probably needed to just play the numbers more, talk to more girls in general. Eventually I quit my job and moved to another country to work and travel, for myself as much as to force my self to get out there.

So, I feel like I have almost everything it takes to me a hit with the girls. Funny, decent looks, adventurous. Yet I'm still going to bed alone every night.

Think I'm just missing that edge that gets a girls from "I like him" to "I want to fuck him". I have good friends who's numbers are 35+ and always seem to be getting laid, and l don't feel like they're better than me as men but obviously they are better with girls. I get the vibe from girls that they like me and are interested sometime but so far I've had little luck making anything happen. I'm improving but I want to improve faster. I've put in the self work and I feel like with a little more time I'll be out of the dry spell but I want some advice of anyone has any.