Im still a pussy

sink_flower234 · 2019-05-25T02:50:51+00:00

What are you afraid would happen if you approached a good looking girl? Rejection? So what? You’ll live. Criticism or judgement? So what? You’ll live. Being attacked by a jealous guy nearby? You’ll probably live through that too, usually there’s bouncers. So there’s nothing to lose and plenty to gain, so just go for it. Regret is worse than any of that.

joshy210 · 2019-05-25T05:02:35+00:00

Bro I know the feeling. What’s the worst that can happen? She says nah (or some variation of no) and you never see her again. That’s the worst that can happen. No big deal. There are millions of other beautiful women out there. It doesn’t matter what you say, the important thing is that you approach her and talk to her....go in with the mindset that you don’t give a f*** bc you are just being you. “Hey I’m so and so, what’s your name?” “What brought you here tonight?” The important thing is that your making moves in an era where social media dominates.....people can swipe left and right....you will stick out if you don’t have to rely on that and approach girls in an open setting. It doesn’t matter what you say, it’s only important that you had confidence to say hello and made the move. Connect with her on an emotional level....basically don’t ask yes or no questions or fact finding questions. How do you feel about blank? What do you think about blank? If you could wake up anywhere, where would it be? If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do? Try to tap into her on an emotional level....

skatinislife446 · 2019-05-25T03:22:19+00:00

Since it seems you're traveling, keep in mind that you're never going to see them again after the approach if it goes badly. This gives you immunity to embarrassment.

2019-05-25T11:16:49+00:00

It doesn’t matter how bad you think it is, you will survive. The other day I approached a girl knowing I was going to get murdered in front of a friend just to show him, hey, nothing really happens. Just go out there and laugh about it afterwards.

folasanmi · 2019-05-25T14:38:25+00:00

Because when there is sexual tension involved you become needy and he girls can sense that off you. You should approach the girl as if she is a regular person and reframe the approach in your mind to be a potential good match. Don’t give the give the approach so much pressure just because she looks good. You must reframe it in your mind.

You are a healthy male going to talk to a woman. It’s natural to do so. That’s where you should draw your confidence from. When you make it something more than that l, listen to society who says you have to be a certain thing before you approach actually fucks you up.

ntipz011 · 2019-05-25T02:51:25+00:00

Just DO IT.

Lol. It ain't easy, but there's no other way. Practice.

Title	Im still a pussy
Author	Atreyu27
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 25, 2019 2:38 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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