So, here's the deal seddit. I've been in the community for quite a while (26yo male, living / working in NYC). I'm a pretty successful male, make good money, work hard, work out often, play basketball, large social circle, good innner game (still much room for improvement as everyday I learn of new things that I like and that refine my skillset) - and I feel like after being an AFC an in too many serious relationships in my early 20s, I'm finally starting to get it.

So, what's the deal? How do you think the female community, mostly white women, view minorities? I'm a 6'5" 205lb brown man. I'm Egyptian. Kind of caramel colored, mostly brown, not black, and not white.

I'm a minority.

My roommate, also a 6'5" 200lb male (white, pretty standard edition, pretty good game, also works hard and plays hard) probably picks up 2x as many women as I do. Seriously. and I do well, but he's a lady killer. He walks into a bar and does nothing and he's getting picked up, and I have to work for it.

So all other differences aside, becuase truthfully, the guy is my best friend on earth and we are seriously the same person, with the exception of looks... It's gotta beg the question - does he have an advantage for being white?

I'm not alluding to it. Just being honest. And I don't even mind it. I like being exotic and different, and I have certainly gained an appreciation for women who are not into the plain vanilla type of guy. Just looking for some opinions here.