In bed seduction

MidnightNinja627 · 2021-10-04T12:09:49+00:00

Tease him. Make it start before you get anywhere near the bed. Make him crave you throughout the day. This can be done with pictures, light touches, whispering dirty things into his ear.

Figure out what your guy likes. Personally I like my neck kissed, when a woman takes my clothes off slowly, kisses and touches parts of my that she’s attracted to. Squeezing my arms, a little bite here or there.

There are so many things you can do to make him fantasize about the moment until it happens. He won’t be able to resist you when you finally have the time together.

Have some foreplay. Tease him over his bottoms before you go further. Take them off him yourself, and let him know you’re salivating just thinking about him in your mouth.

Give him a little show. Ask what piece of clothing should come off first. Kindly oblige and then remove something of his. There’s so many things you can do.

One of the biggest things is just to validate and show that no matter how much he wants you, you want him equally if not more. Be vocal. Men love when you talk dirty to them. Women have the power to really seduce a man to where he won’t be thinking about anything else but you and what he wants to do to you.

Ask him about this. Put his hands on your body and tell him to pleasure you just how you like it.

This is really just the tip of the iceberg, but I hope I was useful.

Chuck_MoreAss · 2021-10-04T12:09:57+00:00

Teasing him a little, but definitely not as much as women like it. Kissing him on the lips and the neck also might do the trick, to get started.

It mostly depends on what he likes and doesn’t like I suppose. After some foreplay a BJ and then sex with a few different positions.

Think about what you like as well. If you enjoy yourself and let him know it, he’ll be enjoying himself more.

3Equilibrium · 2021-10-04T15:27:40+00:00

I was at a girl's house and she had an expensive looking sofa and giving me head as she was on her period and wasn't up for sex. I went to stop her making me cum joking that she's going to ruin her sofa. She laughed and said in the hottest way just after flicking her hair back "your ex never swallowed for you did she?", smiled and then carried on. Hottest thing ever - confidence.

HappinesSource · 2021-10-04T13:05:13+00:00

For me it's all about the vibe you convey with your eyes. Make me feel desired and, depending on your natural way of being, look at me with submission or dominance. No vanilla sex unless you are my gf

Radicalmattitude1 · 2021-10-04T19:07:32+00:00

One of the sexiest things you can do is to be comfortable and accepting of your sexuality. To express yourself fully in bed, to just “let go”. Let your freaky side come out. Communicate, say the dirty shit that pops into your mind, ask him what he wants, tell him what you like.

I’m sure this is all easier said than done haha. But sexual insecurity is a massive turnoff in my experience.

HughBeaumont500 · 2021-10-04T13:58:44+00:00

Tell him you like having sex and he doesn't need to "trick" you or say just the right thing, at the right times, the right way, or dress a certain way or act like the most over confident Alpha in the entire world.

Tell him you like him for who he is and you find him attractive, and want to be with him and have sex with him.

Will drive him crazy. He might even shed a tear (of joy)

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-10-04T18:35:54+00:00

Love seeing more sex related posts on this sub recently.

daddyAuGratin · 2021-10-04T13:35:00+00:00

pull the hair at the back of head while kissing works both ways

devnasty009 · 2021-10-04T14:38:57+00:00

I personally like when she’s showing off with lingerie, oil type stuff. Good dancers turn me on. Everyone is different but I like the tone setting out in public first, like another person posted, eye contact, dirty talk about what will happen later tonight. Anticipation makes everything more intense.

freetheballs69 · 2021-10-04T21:03:25+00:00

Read him Nietzsche, gets me hard every time

myra_nc · 2021-10-05T08:51:26+00:00

Fucking a guys mind produces the best orgasm.

Most men are visual creatures. I have found the teasing portion seems to wane once the penis is erect.

But, the visual play never stops. For instance, one trick I use is "keeping eye contact during fellatio." That seems to earn me a gold star every time. I also happen to enjoy giving head and I think that shows. Be sure to caress the base, scrotum, taint, and I'll reserve pressing my middle finger onto (not into, necessarily) his anus for the last quarter of the blowjob.

It also helps to know if he's kinky and play into it. But that requires a bit of homework to do it "right," since not all fetishes are obvious, and the nuances of many of them are seemingly benign yet yield a megaton of effect for an ounce of forethought.

If it is a special occasion, it is also fun to begin the tease by wearing garters/suspenders and belt, flashing him an instant of exposed thigh in the car ride to or from the outing location.

MmmNeapolitan · 2021-10-04T12:50:52+00:00

Lots of eye contact

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-04T17:59:35+00:00

Stick a finger or a tongue (better) up his ass.

Sameasalways514 · 2021-10-05T03:04:29+00:00

davisguc · 2021-10-04T17:48:07+00:00

Eye contact and dirty talking

gigolobob · 2021-10-04T22:20:26+00:00

Eat his ass.

truthbomb999 · 2021-10-04T23:26:49+00:00

What are sure ways to please a man sexually ? Like to totally drive him crazy .

It depends on the guy and what he's into. This is way too vague. Generally speaking be sexually available, do whatever he wants, don't be fat, and watch porn

Successful-Chard4357 · 2021-10-05T05:00:48+00:00

When you look at him with that look and vibe that almost makes , well actually it can cause a little pre trickle. And when you do bring him to that state of release, he's still as ready as it was the first moment. That's when you know he will never forget this ever.

TheClitCommander__ · 2021-10-05T09:36:46+00:00

Make him a sandwich and unzip his zipper as he eats it.

Title	In bed seduction
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Date	October 4, 2021 11:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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