Internet dating etiquette

EggoGF · 2013-05-12T16:39:31+00:00

For future reference, I'd recommend grabbing drinks or coffee instead of dinner. Dinner is kind of a big production. It's a set period of time, so neither party can gracefully eject if things go south. Also, if you're sitting across from each other at a table, it's harder to kino and build sexual chemistry. I say this as a guy who's been on many a first date with a girl I met from the Internet where neither of us felt that 'spark' or connection. Sitting that far apart for an extended period of time is a handicap, and since you don't know each other, it's weird if you sit next to each other at a dinner table/booth.

heliumbreath12 · 2013-05-12T18:09:14+00:00

I am in the exact same boat right now, met a girls online great talking to her on chat but im not sure how it's gonna be in person, Coffee is probably a better choice, i keep wondering what her voice is even going to sound like

Jeffatron · 2013-05-12T19:02:49+00:00

Re-read through your messages with her to further acquaint yourself with what you two have talked about and the style in which you talk. If you're jovial when you message do everything you can to keep that attitude for when you meet her. Remember you've obviously done well enough to get her to meet you so she already has some form of attraction towards you.

Everyone's different with kino, but I start with light touches on arms if I'm asking a question, or whatever. From there you can progress to knees touching, asking her to take your arm while walking, etc...

And remember, this is your first date/meeting with her. Just show her that you can be a real person that can hold a conversation

well_glory · 2013-05-13T02:33:47+00:00

This might seem creepy, but it works. Whenever I've been given a number from a girl I've met online I always ask for their last name because "I don't like putting names in my phone without the full first and last name." Then, after receiving the last name, I look them up on Facebook and try to discover some mutual interests. Whether it be bands, activities, or whatever I like to casually bring it up in conversation. Obviously I don't tell them that I've "stalked" them, but it makes it easier to start conversation. I had an incredibly successful OKcupid career and met my current girlfriend of 1 year from the site.

n1nj4_v5_p1r4t3 · 2013-05-12T16:13:17+00:00

Keno, break the physical barrier soon.

Looking is touching.

Methaxetamine · 2013-05-12T19:30:00+00:00

I usually took them to my room to fuck. Never took a girl out to eat lol

Title	Internet dating etiquette
Author	The__Dude__Abides
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	May 12, 2013 3:15 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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