Inviting tinder matches to house on first dates? Yay or nay

buckyspunisher · 2019-08-08T02:41:49+00:00

as a woman, it's also kind of creepy to meet a guy you've never met before at his house. she'll probably do it if she's really down and you don't give off creepy vibes

serpx · 2019-08-08T02:37:32+00:00

You can, you’ll just have less dates. Since its all online, a lot of women have their guards up. Personally I’d shoot for house on a 2nd date, but if you want to not beat around the bush and get someone that wants sex as immediately as you do then perhaps go for it until a fish bites.

Its a numbers game. And public first dates can turn into sexual first dates if the energy is there.

tes_befil · 2019-08-08T06:16:32+00:00

It's probably weird to ask straight away about meeting at your place, it's obvious then that you're going to try to fuck on the first date and is highly creepy without talking and getting to know each other first. What id suggest is throwing subtle flirty things at them to see if they pick up and reciprocate them. My most recent one where we met straight up at one of our places started out super casual and seemed like a multiple dater. We got on the topic of movies so I obviously joked about cuddling up and watching our favorites which she loved the idea of. At that point we calmed down a bit but the cuddling idea was in her head then we just talked regularly and I got her snap. Then we talked a bit more until I mentioned movies and cuddling again but suggesting I would love to be there with her to do it now. At that point I threw it out there that I'd probably not even watch it and be all over her instead. Just to see if we were on the same page because we talked enough at this point for her to know I'm not creepy just attracted to her and it was honest. But that's all it took shortly after that we were talking about fucking each other and setting a date to do it.

Edit: if I got nudes I would immediately get more sexual through conversation talking about playing and sucking on her tits and see if she likes it then progress to kissing the rest of her body and eating her out, if she likes all that tell her you want her, she'll likely agree then just find the date and time.

throwaway1073637 · 2019-08-08T11:29:44+00:00

I do it almost the first date every time

acenase · 2019-08-08T12:19:03+00:00

It's only weird because you never did it before. I do it all the time and meet them in the lobby first. Girls are on Tinder to get fucked not to just have platonic conversations and eat dinner and go home. Maybe they will do that to a guy who she knows she can get a free meal out of because he will pay for her dinner and drinks and then go straight over to the guys house who isnt afraid to invite her for wine on his romantic rooftop balcony.

Title	Inviting tinder matches to house on first dates? Yay or nay
Author	moomoocowbrow
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Comments	7
Date	August 8, 2019 2:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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