Is 17 too young to start cold approach?

Captain_w00t · 2020-09-02T23:11:27+00:00

Approaching older women while being teenager is a generational common dream :-) I’m 40+, I and my friends had same fantasies at your age.

The truth is: it’s not impossible (1/1000) IF you’re very attractive AND you look a bit older than your age AND you come a bit more mature as well.

But in general, on average, your chances are very, very low. The problem is that they play on a different level and have no reasons to give you any attention, unless you’re very “fucking hot” to be worth the effort.

What you can do, instead, is to approach girls near your age (but older), say 17-21 would be a more appropriate range.

Dieg0bs · 2020-09-02T23:36:52+00:00

It never is, you have no idea how many men would have given everything to start at your age, I include myself.

Just do it!

anonh2o · 2020-09-03T06:06:41+00:00

HELL NO, never too young! at that age, I wish I was as confident as I am now and doing the approaches I was. Learn these things NOW!

putcoolusernamehere · 2020-09-03T17:58:44+00:00

I'd say it becomes a lot easier once you hit 18 and go to college.

Jarin01 · 2020-09-03T03:40:12+00:00

I had a lot of luck with older women when I was young. At 16 I was nailing my 25 year old shift manager at McDonald's. From there I went out with or messed around with a bunch of women anywhere from 36 to mid 40's. There are a lot of attractive women in that age range that like younger guys. Most women around your age until mid 30's though aren't going to be very interested in someone your age. They want someone who has more status, so unless you are wealthy or unusually good looking you might not have much luck.

In my opinion a young man should focus on older women until he is in his 30's and has his life together. Then he can go for the 20 year old girls that wouldn't talk to him when he was that age. A lot of guys who get married in their 20's wind up settling for someone way bellow what they really want because at that age it's hard to attract a really attractive women. But if you don't get married, take care of yourself, and get your career in order by the time you are in your mid 30's you can have your pick of women.

Zabi4 · 2020-09-03T13:25:49+00:00

Even a man only a year older than you cant approach 17 years olds or less. But you can

pua_max · 2020-09-03T01:34:19+00:00

It wasn’t quite an approach, but one of the first girls I slept with I sat next to on a bus between cities. I was 18 and she was 24. I applied my shit tier game at the time and by some miracle it worked. You can fully approach strangers in your teenage years.

18cmOfGreatness · 2020-09-03T13:11:47+00:00

Check the age of consent laws for where you are, in some countries/states it is illegal to have sex with a 17-year-old if you are older, so of course it would be a problem.

temerity18 · 2020-09-07T08:14:48+00:00

Title	Is 17 too young to start cold approach?
Author	ReluctantRabbit21
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 2, 2020 9:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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