I met this girl on tinder and we started to Snapchat after we matched. She eventually game me her number and we’ve been texting for the last two days. At some point I feel like being seductive has its limits and not every txt is going to be that way.

For context when we started to text, our messages were steamy towards each other. Eventually she mentioned wanting to get to know me more and slow down on the steamy messages. Well since then our txt have been slower towards one another. This girl mentioned wanting to take things slow and she does have a baby. I’m sure that’s taking some time of hers. I asked her on a date and mentioned she’s not going to be able to next weekend and gave me a legit reason.

I typically try not to try not to txt much before a first date but I kinda abandoned that strategy to help keep interest since we don’t have a date lined up. At this point she’s stopped texting me. Either she’s lost interest or something else. I’m not sure exactly.

My questions are:

1.) Should I just back off? 2.) Do most people just suck at texting? 3.) Does being seductive in texting eventually fade and it becomes more conversational? 4.) What should I do now?