I (m 24) am giving up on the idea of a having visible abs because I don’t feel like I have the genetics for it. I had lost 30 kgs after lockdown last year and was pretty skinny but still no visible abs even though I work out. Now after a winter of working out almost every day I’ve started to cut calories but for the past week I started being lightheaded to the point of almost fainting today (this diet is being administered by a professional).

I am afraid that my appearance might intimidate women (I’m 6’3, bearded, a resting bitch face and massive back) Which i know are considered attractive but from what I have experienced it doesn’t seem so (At my skinniest I got approached 3 times in less than a month and now nothing for months and I still have problems with approaching women)