Is confronting a flakey girls a bad idea?

smoothmax · 2019-08-19T03:51:04+00:00

A guy should be emotionally calm and unreactive as much as possible ... especially for minor acts of rudeness and flakiness from women.

Being unfazed by rudeness and shit tests is a very desirable trait, being irritable and reactive is not.

Great_Alchemist · 2019-08-19T03:00:43+00:00

Abort the mission my dude. I know she might be cool or cute or maybe even both. But just trust me: abort the mission.

TheXXL · 2019-08-19T05:56:56+00:00

The answer to your question depends on the desired outcome. Do you want to get her to change her behavior? Then it's usually not helping you. Do you want to get it out of your system? If it helps, why not? In general you should just draw yourself some boundaries and enforce them. If you feel like wasting time, then abort and stop thinking about it. If you enjoy the game, keep on playing until you lose interest.

Archdruid-Madheart · 2019-08-19T04:22:22+00:00

I had a girl like this - knew her decently well online - met in person once - she refused to respond to any other request to hang out. Just ignored it and kept the conversation going.

After she did it the second time - I called my closest friends and they told me to drop her. You aren’t her therapist, you’re a real person.

If she doesn’t want to acknowledge your desires, or even respond to them when you’ve earned respect to at least get a “no” - then drop it. Block her and move on to someone who doesn’t waster your time.

ntipz011 · 2019-08-19T03:33:21+00:00

She doesn't like you and you keep chasing. You're hurting yourself.

So i texted her “guess you lost interest”, she responded “huh”, then I said “u dont wanna talk or go on a date so i dont wanna waste my time"

You lost right there by answering again to her "huh". You're way more invested than she is. Highly unattractive to her. Her "huh" meant "yes" and you couldn't read through it and still tried to get her to give you a positive reaction out of it.

Title	Is confronting a flakey girls a bad idea?
Author	throwawayzibil
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	August 19, 2019 2:57 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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