Is it cheating if you are not yet official?

1017BarSquad · 2019-04-02T00:41:36+00:00

If you're not official it's not cheating. But like others have said, if you wouldn't want her doing it, don't do it.

FINALLLLFLASHHHHH · 2019-04-02T00:33:01+00:00

Ask yourself this question, would you be mad if she slept with another guy behind your back?

tinylittlecircles · 2019-04-02T00:36:49+00:00

If you are asking someone else if it's cheating, it's cheating

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-04-02T11:17:35+00:00

Not fucked up. One of the sad rules of seduction and game is to keep multiple women at the same time . You will notice this behaviour even with most naturals and "ladies man". Women want a man who is desired, woman want a man, who other women want, woman want to chase a man and feel as if they won him over a bunch of other women who wanted him.

If you want to save the relation with your GF you must cheat on her to keep her mind busy and occupied and her emotions in swing or she will break up with you for being boring.

While she might leave you for cheating, if you cheat and she leaves, you have another woman and she is likely to come back. If she leaves you for being boring, she is usually GONE forever.

You can take the exact same man, make him famous (high status) overnight and women will now find him attractive who use to reject him.

"Girls use to diss me [when he was broke and unknown], now they write letters that they miss me [when he became rich and famous and other women started chasing him for his status]"

Notorious B.I.G.

Great American Poet.

morgarr · 2019-04-02T00:32:42+00:00

How would you feel if she was sleeping/texting/hanging out with other hot guys? That’s your answer

If you want to hook up with other people than that’s cool, just be honest about it.

colslab · 2019-04-02T00:59:48+00:00

If you really need to get it out of your system just go ahead and do it and put your 'kind of a relationship' on hold. trust me, just had to end things with a girl I've been seeing awhile but come to terms I'm just not ready to settle down

runningwiththebulls · 2019-04-02T13:55:48+00:00

I was under the impression it's the woman's job to define the relationship and it's the man's job to go out and pursue women to fuck. Keep doing what you're supposed to do and let the girls try to define the relationship.

You can also talk to her about what she wants it she hasn't done that yet. Who knows she may be fucking other dudes.

But if this not official it's not cheating in my opinion.

Audentes · 2019-04-02T11:50:57+00:00

Everyone else already said what you need to ask yourself, but just know this is normal. Going into my current five month relationship I felt that way. I oddly went with only her after a few weeks.

One thing that helped was talking to her about this. I made it official around two months in and explained I wouldn't normally be focused only on you, but things have been going so well it just felt right. She ate that up and it helped keep the dynamic there.

Title	Is it cheating if you are not yet official?
Author	JavaNeenja
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	April 2, 2019 12:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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