Is it worth staying on media?

1keentolearn12 · 2024-01-27T08:11:24+00:00

Like most things, in moderation social media is great.

DaygameCode · 2024-01-27T12:37:09+00:00

I never needed instagram, facebook, or anything like that to meet and go out with women or to sleep with them. It’s not necessary thing to have when you know what you are doing face to face.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-01-27T15:41:15+00:00

I'm not on social media because I think it's degenerate, corrupting society, and destroying social skills (especially in men). However, Instagram is the world's largest dating app, and it allows you to demonstrate social proof, preselection, and lifestyle. However, you don't necessarily need social media to convey this.

Many guys don't realize that you can convey value, social proof, and pre selection all indirectly through actions and behaviors in conversation. So, no, you don't need social media. People i've approached in person always ask me if I have an IG while on the date with them, and I say no and they think it's cool. It's not weird because i'm able to convey value and distribute that I am a guy other guys want to be and other women want indirectly, and I was able to get to this point through hard work.

So, go ahead and approach women in person. Men don't really cold approach anymore because of social media, so you're actually putting yourself in an advantageous position. Also, you'll develop charisma, confidence, and adequate social skills by cold approaching, something you can't do online.

This gives advice on what to do when you cold approach a woman: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-at-the-gym?r=31tj3q&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

If you do decide to stick on social media and dating apps, here's a guide to how to optimally get dates: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Downtown_Long_3790 · 2024-01-27T14:48:36+00:00

The older I get the more a guy having social media is a turn off tbh. If you’re over 25 and I find out you have a Snapchat I wouldn’t pursue, or if you’re super active on instagram (daily use) I’d avoid also. Everyone is different though

-Twyptophan- · 2024-01-27T14:58:29+00:00

Depends on the demographic you're looking for, but it can serve as an online "social resume" if you do it right. My IG is not great, but it has been a way I've gotten some leads in recent years. My main focus over the next year or two is increasing my appearance and working on getting a better online resume with cool photos with said appearance

Not Snapchat though. I only use that for very select reasons/to talk to very certain people. Will never ask a girl for her snap unless we're in a committed relationship

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-01-27T15:37:40+00:00

I have gotten laid off social media more than anything. The women were absolutely terrifying, I recommend irl connections.

aklseduction · 2024-01-28T07:36:39+00:00

Social media is great if you’re on the upper end of the looks spectrum. Women literally have nothing else to base you off. IG game comes down to looks or followers. The guys that have both don’t even need to leave the couch to get laid.

If you’re not Brad Pitt, I don’t think it’s worth your time. Stick to real life where you can demonstrate more substantial aspects of your existence.

Title	Is it worth staying on media?
Author	Ruckusisbestsupport
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	January 27, 2024 6:25 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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