Is my girlfriend cheating?

Steve_Savage · 2018-01-09T07:56:55+00:00

Well she may not be cheating but she's definitely not respecting you.

Alex01854 · 2018-01-09T12:30:47+00:00

The fact that your girlfriend is talking to guys that are sending dick pics is a sure sign that she is either cheating, or looking to cheat. What kind of conversations are they having where a guy feels as though it is necessary to send her a dick pic? Obviously, they aren't discussing a work project. I would cut her loose. She obviously has no respect for you and I am quite certain she is cheating on you.

perversealt · 2018-01-09T13:02:26+00:00

I would wager that she isn’t cheating. If she were, why would she give you hints that she is?

I sense that these comments are her way of getting power over the relationship. The comments frame her as the more attractive, desirable, and valuable member of the relationship and basically serve to inform you that she could find another man, maybe of higher quality, on short notice.

Do I think this means you should leave her? No. People do bad, impulsive things all the time. You’re going to have trouble finding a girl who will always treat you right, moreso the younger you are. I would find a way to call her out for it casually. Don’t make a big scene out of it. Tell her you don’t like it and think it reflects poorly on her. Not only is she not respecting you, she is sabotaging the relationship and is talking to guys who don’t respect her at all. But keep in mind her telling you and not taking any action to correct the situation is probably worse for the relationship than it actually happening. Guys send dick pics because guys are stupid, and sometimes you can’t just ignore people. Maybe she thinks you would just find this humorous, but that’s not for me to say. She probably wants to see you jealous or establish power over the relationship.

TSLOMF · 2018-01-09T16:50:57+00:00

Now, imagine this in reverse: imagine girls are sending you photos in compromising positions, and your girl is complaining that you should stop talking to them yet you push back with a non-chalant, it’s-ok-I-dont-pay-attention type of answer to then only add on your answer by speaking about the girls who sent them to you in length.

High chance you’ve thought about seeing someone else or are about to make that move. And there’s a high chance she thinks the same.

I say if things are still able to be salvaged, you could fix the problem but not without setting some hard boundaries in terms of respect. Otherwise, it wouldn’t hurt to start looking for your exit. Spending time with a person who’s ok with getting pictures from someone else and assuring you it’s nothing to worry about is definitely playing you for a sucker. Don’t be a sucker.

But that’s just my 2 cents..

CommonFable · 2018-01-09T18:10:03+00:00

I'd say dump her point blank. I know it's tough but her behavior is a huge red flag.

Kintsugi2 · 2018-01-09T15:42:22+00:00

End things man. You vocalized your view. She disrespected your view and clearly doesn't understand what it means to be in a trusting relationship.

Title	Is my girlfriend cheating?
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Date	January 9, 2018 7:55 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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