Is progress supposed to be this slow?

rjx555 · 2022-06-05T16:39:24+00:00

You learn best through experience and that comes through repetition I remember doing a bootcamp with a coach last year in Las Vegas and in that weekend alone I approach at least 50 women if not more and from there I went on to ride this wave of momentum that got me great results but it’s alot like the gym if you do it consistently through repetition you gain muscle but if you stop going you lose that muscle so you have to keep at it the only way you’re going to speed up your process will be approaching way more. ideally at the peak of your game you will be approaching at the grocery store at the gym anywhere you see opportunities because the more consistent you become the more you rewire your brain to seize every opportunity instead of being scared to approach for fear of rejection as you were when you began so again you have to keep approaching til the rejection means nothing to the bulletproof confidence you’ve built because through rejection I’ve found you really learn who you are Good luck my friend

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-05T17:43:28+00:00

Stop working on yourself and start doing. What is there to work on more? It's just another excuse to have fears and phobias.

Optymistyk · 2022-06-05T18:28:01+00:00

I'm probably not making any friends here by saying this, but here goes

"Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is? Insanity is doing the exact... same fucking thing... over and over again expecting... shit to change..."

If it doesn't work for you for such an extended period of time - don't do it. It didn't work for me either. Eventually I found another way. One that goes completely against the usual guru advice. I might not be pulling 3 women daily but I'm satisfied with where I am - and I can tell I'm still getting better

CulturalPiece2146 · 2022-06-05T16:36:02+00:00

If you have mentioned what was your starting point it would be easier to tell whether it’s normal or not.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-05T18:00:03+00:00

Find a mentor, or someone who is already successful.

Copy them

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-06T10:07:25+00:00

If it's fine for you then it's fine. There's no such thing as normal or not normal. It doesn't work that way. I've spent about 3 years just to be better socially and learning how to get girl but meanwhile, I was learning I was just focusing on my learning process then I applied what I learn later on. You can't waste your time while you're making yourself better so I'd just focus on taking the right actions and if you make mistakes, fine, fix it and move on till it becomes the natural part of you

Title	Is progress supposed to be this slow?
Author	Yellow_Squeezer
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	June 5, 2022 4:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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