Is speed seduction good?

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-10T14:19:55+00:00

If you're referring to going for the close (asking for her number to set up a date) within a few min of initial conversation, yeah that can definitely work if she's giving you solid indicators of interest and most women don't want to talk for 30 min with a total stranger while they're out running errands during the day

Big-Date8342 · 2025-10-12T07:32:55+00:00

Only if you're after a 1 night stand. And I still wouldn't say it's good. Mediocre at best. Not a good foundation for good game.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-10T14:04:38+00:00

Speed increases risk and excitement / spontaneity. So it has pros and cons.

Pros: With women who are risk-taking and adventurous. Or want to be taken on a wild experience - speed can be a great asset. It can also make you seem more confident and high status because you're actively leading quickly towards what you want (which is typical only of confident + high status men).

Downside: Risk averse & careful women who need time will be very put off by speed. It can make you seem impatient and desperate and needy. You may also experience more buyer's remorse. For example, there was a guy in my city that took a woman to from the nightclub to the nightclub bathroom within a few minutes of talking to her. They had sex, but this was so out of character for her, and she was also probably not totally sober. So she later accused him of rape.

How to do it: Lead. Act confident, sexual and dominant. Ask consent for things quickly.
- Do you want to kiss? - I want to show you where I live - I wanna fuck you in the bathroom right now.

Etc.

Best to avoid anyone even mildly intoxicated / drunk. As that is extra risky. And in addition, you may want to double check in with her about being totally cool with this before you stick it in. And also: Give her great care / follow up after to reduce buyer's remorse.

StealPantera · 2025-10-11T13:54:48+00:00

lol. The 90s called and they want their loser back.

Title	Is speed seduction good?
Author	Easy_Manager3026
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	October 10, 2025 1:27 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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