Is there any actually useful advice here- or anywhere?

TheTruth221 · 2021-09-13T11:06:55+00:00

yeah but advice is not the be all end all answer

just use it as supplement

Exciting-Candle2753 · 2021-09-13T10:52:03+00:00

there's lots of advice out there, but whether it's actually much use is another thing (this is of course a business. Lots of people selling coaching and posting on behalf of said coach etc)

I mean, everything about game has been written and most people know it and have tried it. It can work sometimes if she's into you, but it will fail when she's not. (we've all seen the infields of various pro's telling dhv stories and negging hot girls etc and they still go home alone as she just wasn't attracted to him. Buy any premium product and look at the rejection compilations that most of them show. It really is a numbers game)

I think all you really need to know is too approach lots of girls, and learn to flirt in a way that isn't super creepy.

You'll get results if assuming you're halfway decent looking. It's just about finding the girls that are into you, and then not messing it up

I feel like you are looking for lines or techniques to force attraction in a girl, but I do'nt think it exists.

The things that claim to be able to do that (dhv stories about being pre selected and a leader of men, negs, self amusements, cold reads) have all be tried and from reading FR's and watching so many rejections from infield footage, you have to seriously wonder how much power any of that stuff actually has

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-09-13T11:24:01+00:00

Most of what you need is publicly available in a general sense. A product will show you examples of infields so you will see what pickup looks like. Most experienced people will tell you that you learn by going out and learning from taking action. So, there isn’t some pot of gold wisdom your going to come across. Some of this depends on who you trust and what you want to do.

Anyone who has done lots of approaches and has experience has something of value to learn from IMO. That’s why there is plenty to get from mystery and old school game. Those guys were going out and learning. It’s just teaching game became profitable so it’s hard to know what to trust.

To me, what generates attraction, what builds a connection, and the mindsets you need to succeed at game are all things that can be learned from books, YouTube channels, and coaches. You can learn the theory, but it’s up to you to let it guide you in directions and put it into action. It’s a skill that can be learned.

But, you will have to sift through people who dont think game works, or have some other view of what to do. Again, pick what you want to do and try it out. Post field reports with sticking points and try to learn from it, that is if your trying to learn game.

AelfredRex · 2021-09-13T11:33:26+00:00

Get out there, dig on the ladies and see who digs you back. Just keep your eyes open and your mind receptive. All you need to do.

appmanga · 2021-09-13T12:43:04+00:00

I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that if I want any results, I'm going to have to literally reinvent the wheel and figure it all out myself - and worse, shoulder the risks that come with that.

Yes, you should do that.

Good luck.

hh7139 · 2021-09-13T15:39:07+00:00

Go read models by Mark Manson then comeback. Yes, you are going to have to reinvent yourself a little bit and put yourself out there and accept risk, that’s life man…. But it will all be for the better.

Rude-Kaleidoscope-58 · 2021-09-15T06:05:12+00:00

If you have a doubt, read a solid source.

Models by Mark Manson. It has been globally approved by the community since years.

Title	Is there any actually useful advice here- or anywhere?
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Date	September 13, 2021 10:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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