Is there anything I can do to improve? Anything different you guys would've done?

DailyManliness · 2016-05-10T06:00:20+00:00

This is a good interaction keep it going, it seems like fun on both sides, I don't see a problem here at all haha

WingmanRon · 2016-05-10T07:07:01+00:00

Two tidbits of advice, and feel free to mold this to your personality and do some testing with it. I learned a while ago, that sometimes over gaming can appear like it is going really well with the girl... but she will refuse to meet up with you. I switched up my game, lowered the "gameyness" a couple of notches, and went into more normal mode (hey :), whatsup?, or haha I'm playing call of duty) just casual conversation over text, and quickly setting up a meet up works wonders. Normal, friendly, and cool method works pretty well especially if you attracted her in person. Additionally, go for the meet up quickly. If you meet her on tinder you want to meet up like that night you matched. If you met her in person, within a day or two go out for coffee (or have her over for wine, go out together, etc).

Good luck my friend!

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-05-10T13:06:52+00:00

You rode the "stunning" bit a little too hard. It kinda sounded like you were fishing for a compliment, which shows insecurity and takes away from the playfulness.
I like using the occasional emoji, but you shouldn't be winking after every little quip. Explaining a joke (or even just explaining that something is a joke) ruins the joke. Just assume that she's on the same page most of the time. If her sense of humor is so different from yours that she can't tell that you're being playful, the whole encounter is doomed anyways.
Also, I like to break the date invitation into several steps. Like this.

vardarac · 2016-05-10T05:46:44+00:00

I like this. Did she ever agree to go out?

wwwsssppp · 2016-05-10T08:17:47+00:00

I would have posted it to the right subreddit.........

Nikelu · 2016-05-10T09:54:55+00:00

Unless you are under 14 stop using those emojis. Also if you are under 14 stop using emojis as well. The it's not about what you said, it's what you're thinking was cringey af. Anyways the next text was really playful and good. But the I will take that as a yes with the retarded emoji again destroys it . Cringe af again combined with the emoji. Should have proposed something or say like do you like playing x (whereas x bowling,billiard etc) or say that you wanna do smth like take a walk or check the y shop,avenue,coffee shop, route. After that no maybe you could have said smth like Oh you are right, Friday sucks, how about tomorrow ,this evening , now blah blah. If she said no again I would stop but that's just me, other people would keep trying

Title	Is there anything I can do to improve? Anything different you guys would've done?
Author	udog
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	May 10, 2016 5:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4inthn/is_there_anything_i_can_do_to_improve_anything/
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