So I went on a date with this girl I work with once and I escalated it to the point where we held hands and made out and she had a bf during that time. It's been almost a month since that date and I've only hung out with her 2 times for a short period of time going out for lunch on our break at work. She recently broke up with her bf and we planned out our next date but she tells me she plans on seeing a guy she met on tinder and is thinking about making him friends with benefits because it's the first time she was single in 4 years. I brushed it off and carried on the conversation normally as if it didn't affect me (it did).

But at this point, she pretty much set up a barrier between me and the possibility of hooking up with her with this shit test of her about to meet another guy and make him friends with benefits. We plan on going out for drinks the weekend after she meets this guy. Do I still escalate this girl now that she brought up the fact that she is going on a date with another guy and will possibly have sex with him as well?