I see and hear a lot of dudes blame their dating flaws and lack of attraction on the females for.. being females? Females, women, girls, whatever you prefer to call them naturally like the “it” guy. The “it” guy doesn’t have to be the loudest, most famous, even well-known guy in the room. He just has to fill the basic qualifications of what any woman needs: good hygiene/well groomed, can dress, in shape, and active in hobbies or excelling in his career. All of these indicate status and wether you wanna hear it or not, status matters, we’re all products in each other’s malls— some will look past us, some will give us some time and move on, and others may take you to the cash register. These are basic things that men should know but it’s easier to just blame the female for being shallow and “oh I’m just not enough”. When you CAN be enough, it just all starts with you. Take those necessary steps to being the best you for whatever partner you desire. It’s called the dating game for a reason, you have to play the game by the games rules to see success in the game. Work on yourself.

And for the love of God, don’t think working on yourself. You still have to do the leg work and go out and talk to women, they won’t gravitate to you.